"i didn't feel any chemistry" meaning? (dating, married, girls)
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IF you were a woman, I'm sure some other women on here would be saying "youre too good for them," etc. Men don't get that type of pseudo social feedback/reassurance from anyone, and so you tend to really question yourself when these situations arise.
You could have left this whole paragraph out and been fine.
Most responses have affirmed that the OP didn't cause it.
Yes. I see it as a kind of primal attraction. Very base.
Partially...but as a woman I feel it's more than just whether or not I want to have sex with the person. Many of us (I'll never say "all") women subconsciously or consciously think long-term. (This also depends upon our age, stage of life, etc., etc., disclaimer, disclaimer.) But due to this we also want to "click" very well as far as, for example, conversation...basic personality...basic beliefs...etc. Many of these will be revealed, either purposefully (brought into the conversation) or just naturally, during a date. For me, all of those things have to at least very basically click in order for me to feel "chemistry" and want to get to know the man more.
Just wanting to shag the guy isn't what I'd define as "chemistry" in this sense, I'd define it as just lust. And even then, no matter how "hot-looking" the guy, I wouldn't want to shag him if he acted like a total jerk. Even though in that case I'd NOT be thinking long-term. I don't know why. I've actually had this experience..not often as I wasn't often the "huntress" type, LOL, but for example, there was one boy I was CRAZY about physically, having met him briefly at several parties in a row...actually, all the girls wanted him because he was about ten leagues ahead of all the other guys physically...just SO good-looking, holy shoot. We got to talking finally...I started to think, Okay, he's still amazingly handsome...so maybe...Then the chauvinism and idiotic middle school-esque jokes came out and...ugh...Female equivalent of a soft-off. Complete with the "wa-wa-wa-waaaaaaaaaaa" music mentally playing in the background.
Chemistry is probably a pretty complicated thing but a. it all happens pretty fast and b. despite being probably complex, people DO wind up getting together so take heart, let nature do its thing and eventually you'll click with someone.
so even after 1 meeting they can tell it wont work right away?
Yes.
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