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Old 12-06-2015, 06:30 PM
 
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You can't "shelve" people until your ready (January?!).

Ask her out, or don't. Whenever you want. She will either say "yes" or "no." /shrug
This was inadvertent mistake. I don't have a history of this stuff. It was a tactical error. I really want to win her back.

This wasn't my normal behaviour.

 
Old 12-06-2015, 06:33 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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This was inadvertent mistake. I don't have a history of this stuff. It was a tactical error. I really want to win her back.

This wasn't my normal behaviour.

Ask. Her. Out. There is no "winning" her back. There is either you guys want to date each other or not.
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Old 12-06-2015, 06:36 PM
 
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This was inadvertent mistake. I don't have a history of this stuff. It was a tactical error. I really want to win her back.

This wasn't my normal behaviour.
You sound like the heroine in an Edith Wharton novel. Stop clutching your heaving bosom and ask the girl for a date.
 
Old 12-06-2015, 06:44 PM
 
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I didn't even read most of the responses.

I despise texting. And most especially when the discussion is of some importance. That same tool used to text can also be used as a phone. The voice is SO MUCH BETTER to use in a relationship than blank words on a screen. Face-to-face conversations where each can see expressions and "feel" one another is by far the best, and the phone is second.

I wish people (including myself) would stop using texting or Facebook messaging as a form of communication to be relied upon in a relationship. In this case, old school is best. The ONLY social media communication tool I feel is Ok is something like video Skype etc where you each can see each other. So easy for texting/messaging to be misread and cause issues that never should be.
 
Old 12-06-2015, 07:24 PM
 
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You sound like the heroine in an Edith Wharton novel. Stop clutching your heaving bosom and ask the girl for a date.
I will soon.I need to socialize with her more and earn some trust back. Then I will. She's somewhat pissed at me.
 
Old 12-06-2015, 07:26 PM
 
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Ask. Her. Out. There is no "winning" her back. There is either you guys want to date each other or not.


I will. I think she is making a huge mistake here. She wanted to see me right away. She looks at me still in the gym. I honestly hope its not toast and she will come around.
 
Old 12-06-2015, 07:27 PM
 
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Are you 35 or are you still in high school? Just talk to her the next time you are in the gym and ask her out for some coffee or for lunch next week. Tell her you would like to get to know her better. Stop playing cat and mouse games and just talk to her like a normal person. Maybe she will like you.
 
Old 12-06-2015, 07:40 PM
 
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You are literally, talking in circles.
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Old 12-06-2015, 08:20 PM
 
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This was inadvertent mistake. I don't have a history of this stuff. It was a tactical error. I really want to win her back.

This wasn't my normal behaviour.
Whatever your normal behavior is, it sure isn't being very effective when trying to get with someone who supposedly is into you.
 
Old 12-06-2015, 08:22 PM
 
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Are you 35 or are you still in high school? Just talk to her the next time you are in the gym and ask her out for some coffee or for lunch next week. Tell her you would like to get to know her better. Stop playing cat and mouse games and just talk to her like a normal person. Maybe she will like you.
she has apologizing to me about not getting back to me. I cant ask yet.
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