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I do understand. If you were very religious, you would be okay with waiting or at least have very strong convictions against divorce. A woman who prizes her virginity--the type that ascribes to the "chewed-up piece of gum" perspective--is never going to give her one and only piece of unchewed gum to someone who says, "maybe we'll have some kind of informal civil ceremony" and is perfectly okay with divorce. Once you chew her gum, it's chewed, and you can spit it on the ground if you want to. Girls like that are probably not going to be okay with you at all.
That's why you should be focusing on virgins who have not had the opportunity or inclination to have sex. The wallflower, maybe someone with a low libido or someone who wants to be in love before sex. Virgins by circumstance, not convictions.
There are a couple of women on here who are in their 20s and are virgins for some very good reasons. They are FAR too smart to touch this guy with a 50 foot pole.
There is no way I would let any guy whom I was dating to be in the same room with me while I was having my pap smear. I am not even sure if any clinic allows this.
My husband does not even do this nor did he insist on doing this while we were dating.
Since you want proof that the female whom you are dating is a virgin, exactly what type of proof will you give her so she knows that you are a virgin?
Do you really expect any female whom you are dating to be comfortable and agreeable to your request?
There is no way I would let any guy whom I was dating to be in the same room with me while I was having my pap smear. I am not even sure if any clinic allows this.
My husband does not even do this nor did he insist on doing this while we were dating.
Since you want proof that the female whom you are dating is a virgin, exactly what type of proof will you give her so she knows that you are a virgin?
Do you really expect any female whom you are dating to be comfortable and agreeable to your request?
I don't think one of his requirements is that he is supposed to be a virgin. He just wants one who is a virgin herself. That's why I think he needs to move to a country that has double standards for men and women.
Bottom line OP is that your attitude towards sex isn't healthy.
Women are going to have sex.
You just need to be able to discern the ones who have a healthy attitude about sex and the ones who use sex as validation or as a tool.
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