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Loreen is actually a dude.
The first 3 paragraphs tell us he hangs out at a bar with friends, they all want that ONE girl and he is too shy to flirt much, even though she is into him.
THen I got tired.
Guy really likes girl. Girl seems to prefer guy over his 2 friends that also like girl.
But guy is letting one friend move in on girl because he is shy.
First, the "three guys to one girl" ratio is not going to work out well for the "I'm shy, I'm shy, I'm shy" guy. Keep that in mind.
Second, you just kept hanging out, all four of you, over multiple days, and basically competed to see which of you could touch her the most. I just kept picturing this woman getting pawed at/letting four guys paw at her for all that time. A shoulder here, thighs there, hand over here. It was kind of horrifying and exhausting to read.
Third, if this happens...
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Originally Posted by Lorenn19
All of us was exhausted, so we were going to get to sleep, however, since I live literally just few minutes from my friends place, the other guys live much farther, and my friend only had three "places" to sleep, I offered to go home. Even though she said I should stay, that there is enough space for everyone, and she literally said that we could be sleeping together on one bed, and the B guy in the other (the A guy in the other room (his apartment, his room)). However, (not sure why), I said I'm going home. The A and B guys were literally arguing about who should and who shouldn't sleep in the one room alone, and who in the other room with her. The girl was really insisting on me staying. In fact, she shaid "I will go wherever (me) is going" and "I'll only stay if (me) stays." However, the B guy stayed with her and I went home.
...DO NOT VOLUNTEER TO BE THE ONE TO GO HOME. She could not have made a more obvious overture.
Going forward, if you want a connection with her, you HAVE to get her away from your friend.
But ... I don't think she really is the most amazing girl you think she is. It sounds like she just loves attention.
I read the whole thing. It sounds like the girl has very loose boundaries and is either a tease/attention hog or is angling for a threesome with the OP and his friend.
Also I think all the dudes in the scenario are shy Indian guys, which is why nothing is happening after 8 -10 meetups that ended up in shared beds and "cuddling."
From what I gathered from your thread, YOU need to step up about 3 notches ahead of everyone else!
She is into YOU, and you are letting every tom, Dick, and Harry step all over you!
Dude, go for it! What more signs do you need? You wait. You lose!
Second, you just kept hanging out, all four of you, over multiple days, and basically competed to see which of you could touch her the most. I just kept picturing this woman getting pawed at/letting four guys paw at her for all that time. A shoulder here, thighs there, hand over here. It was kind of horrifying and exhausting to read.
I got the same vibe. I was a little grossed out by the way she is offering herself around so indiscriminately. She reminds me of the low-self-esteem high school girl giving random blow jobs under the bleachers.
I read the whole thing. It sounds like the girl has very loose boundaries and is either a tease/attention hog or is angling for a threesome with the OP and his friend.
Also I think all the dudes in the scenario are shy Indian guys, which is why nothing is happening after 8 -10 meetups that ended up in shared beds and "cuddling."
Also got that vibe...WAY TOO MUCH TOUCHING!!
I do think "hand action" just meant cuddling as well.
No point of having "theories". And it should be too late, you should realize by now she's not relationship material, hardly "brilliant" and too flippant. It's gross that she's just going through the guys who happen to be your best friends. Most guys would just back off... Unless they're pretty desperate. Which... clearly all of you guys are. So go ahead and be shy, you have no stake in this game.
No point of having "theories". And it should be too late, you should realize by now she's not relationship material, hardly "brilliant" and too flippant. It's gross that she's just going through the guys who happen to be your best friends. Most guys would just back off... Unless they're pretty desperate. Which... clearly all of you guys are. So go ahead and be shy, you have no stake in this game.
Loreen is actually a dude.
The first 3 paragraphs tell us he hangs out at a bar with friends, they all want that ONE girl and he is too shy to flirt much, even though she is into him.
THen I got tired.
Loreen has a thing for attention-monger bar girl. Bar girl has very loose boundaries and likes to get attention from multiple guys. Bar girl is confused that she is not getting much attention from Loreen, so she drops hints that she wants more attention from him so she can be validated by having maximuym attention from all three guys.
Loreen doesn't seem to recognized when girls are jerking guys around and thinks this girl is amazing, when she is simply a troubled girl with a lot of intimacy issues.
Loreen probably never had a parents with a healthy relationship who were able to teach him about making healthy choices in girls.
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It was kind of horrifying and exhausting to read. 
