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Old 02-11-2016, 06:50 AM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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So Spitballing the idea thinking of the pros and cons she could think its sweet and be totally freaked out and throw it away sounds kind of fun but things could get ugly i have no idea if she has a guy. I can usually tell she. She looks single ( and smells single ) but you never know.
Never mix business with pleasure. Don't date coworkers.
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Old 02-11-2016, 07:05 AM
 
Location: Middle of nowhere
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Wait. Is she your employee?

No, just no.
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Old 02-11-2016, 07:13 AM
 
Location: Canada
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Wait. Is she your employee?

No, just no.
Exactly. Coworkers is bad enough, let alone an employer or anyone in a superior role doing this. This is all kinds of wrong, anonymous or otherwise.
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Old 02-11-2016, 07:28 AM
 
Location: Central Virginia
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So Spitballing the idea thinking of the pros and cons she could think its sweet and be totally freaked out and throw it away sounds kind of fun but things could get ugly i have no idea if she has a guy. I can usually tell she. She looks single ( and smells single ) but you never know.
She's your employee? Back off.

Mod cut.

Last edited by PJSaturn; 02-14-2016 at 04:33 PM.. Reason: Off-topic.
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Old 02-11-2016, 07:32 AM
 
Location: NNJ
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I agree.... this comes up often. Workplace romance more often than not is very messy.... be prepared to look for another job regardless if the relationship works out or not.
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Old 02-11-2016, 07:39 AM
 
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So Spitballing the idea thinking of the pros and cons she could think its sweet and be totally freaked out and throw it away sounds kind of fun but things could get ugly i have no idea if she has a guy. I can usually tell she. She looks single ( and smells single ) but you never know.

Stupid idea any way you look at it, especially if it's a coworker.
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Old 02-11-2016, 07:48 AM
 
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Stupid idea any way you look at it, especially if it's a coworker.
Yes, stupid, and desperate-bordering-on-creeepy
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Old 02-11-2016, 10:17 AM
 
Location: kansas city
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or be a real gent and order a flower and a chocolate for all of the women in the office. Group love is so much nicer.

Sending Flowers and Chocolates to employee on Valentines Day Anonymously-not-bad.jpg
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Old 02-11-2016, 10:18 AM
 
Location: kansas city
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Yes, stupid, and desperate-bordering-on-creeepy
[bleep] you guys are so mean and not true! how is it creepy?

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Old 02-11-2016, 10:19 AM
 
Location: kansas city
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You're wasting a lot of money on what could be nothing. Why don't you just talk to her. Better yet, forget the whole thing. Workplace romances are huge potential for problems. Don't jeopardize your job.
job. HAHA I'm not some broker on wall street the is just a minimum wage position.
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