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Old 03-02-2016, 07:02 AM
 
Location: Pa
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Such as?
What things interest you? Hobbies?

You said you like tools. (Or is that a play on words.hahaha) Anyway go to tool conventions. Talk to fellow sellers and buyers. Other people interested in houses, fixing things up, etc.
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Old 03-02-2016, 07:03 AM
 
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Ok so now I am told I should not talk, keep being independent and self sufficient...

What else? Is drinking in front of men an issue?
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Old 03-02-2016, 07:06 AM
 
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What things interest you? Hobbies?

You said you like tools. (Or is that a play on words.hahaha) Anyway go to tool conventions. Talk to fellow sellers and buyers. Other people interested in houses, fixing things up, etc.
I work on my house. I like riding motorcycles. ATVs. I know more about firearms than the average person. I like alcohol. I like old cars, but sold mine last summer and have not bought a new one to tinker with and take to shows. I like country and go to country bars frequently.
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Old 03-02-2016, 07:14 AM
 
Location: Pa
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I work on my house. I like riding motorcycles. ATVs. I know more about firearms than the average person. I like alcohol. I like old cars, but sold mine last summer and have not bought a new one to tinker with and take to shows. I like country and go to country bars frequently.
Why don't you go to car shows and talk to men there? Go do country line dancing? Ride motorcycles with others? And do meet ups. Volunteer at a gun range to aid with help to the newbies.
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Old 03-02-2016, 07:20 AM
 
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Why don't you go to car shows and talk to men there? Go do country line dancing? Ride motorcycles with others? And do meet ups. Volunteer at a gun range to aid with help to the newbies.
I go to car shows. I don't dance, but do go to country bars. I do the bike thing and I do the gun range thing some for my own benefit. I do it at work though for the most part, which is free. I am not an instructor. My knowledge is in another area of ballistics.
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Old 03-02-2016, 07:29 AM
 
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In my eyes, I will be single until I am married. But I won't marry the wrong guy so I don't see this changing because I don't attract guys that are normal.
You attract what you put out. If you had maintained a professional attitude, you wouldn't have been discussing your dating life or drinking beer with someone you are considering hiring for a skilled job.

It is obvious that you have some boundary issues, so when you act like you do others respond in kind. Yet you call them weird. You are a walking contradiction.

I'm curious, others have mentioned multiple threads. Are you really wanting advice, or are you simply entertaining yourself?
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Old 03-02-2016, 07:34 AM
 
Location: Pennsylvania
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Maybe the dude didn't like being referred to as "pretty boy". And as far as "I know I don't want projects, they need to be stable and have their life together.", maybe you should work on your life first.
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Old 03-02-2016, 07:42 AM
 
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trainwreck

I can hear the whistle, but there's no bulb in the headlamp.
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Old 03-02-2016, 07:44 AM
 
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Yeah that part I was good with...

It's the part that I am too independent that I am struggling with... What type of guy likes "too independent", but still wants a partner and attention more than 1-2 times a week.
The kind who is content with seeing someone only once or twice a week.

BTW, you spoke to this guy for what, an hour, max? Why are you analyzing this? He doesn't know you. You really don't know him.

Are you seeing a mental health professional? Because I really think you need one. If you already have one, and it has been more than 6 months, I suggest you get a new one.
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Old 03-02-2016, 07:45 AM
 
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Maybe the dude didn't like being referred to as "pretty boy". And as far as "I know I don't want projects, they need to be stable and have their life together.", maybe you should work on your life first.
My life is pretty together. Got a stable job, couple houses, great kids, no debt except houses which can be sold for a profit, years salary in savings, etc.

I would be thrilled if I could meet a guy that has everything I have. I am not even trying to be that picky.
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