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In order to stop his flirting, that should have been the ONLY thing you said. It sounds like you had "discussions" about his marriage?
When talking to an inappropriately flirty person, you nip the flirting by constantly mentioning your spouse or their spouse in conversations, and then ending the conversations quickly.
You don't follow their lead and build rapport with just the two of you.
Yes. That's it. You just plow right through that chat with a suggestion to get help, a reminder that you're married, and a sudden need to go do the laundry or something.
Really, they will go away.
If not? You just unfriend them and keep on trucking.
You don't get your husband involved unless they show up at your house or corner you at work and try to molest you.
Sheeeesh.
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I approved him on FB b/c this was *before* he started becoming creepy. Apparently, it's just to me & not to any other female coworkers either (I have asked). We have alot of mutual friends (cowokers as well) who we share on FB as well, did not think it was a big deal in the beginning...
He messages me every now & then through FB.
My husband is the one who saw the message alert on my phone when it beeped & he sent him the message right away. He asked me who the man was & why was he sending me messages & that he was "going to take care of it" His way of marking his territory?
Oh for goodness sake! You do like the drama. Never mind, do what you will, I guess.
I don't know his wife, I just know that he got married this past summer & apparently, his wife doesn't speak much English (she is Filipina) I wonder if he is into "open" relationships or something, bc the way he talks it's as if his wife knows or is aware....I really don't know...
In your OP, you said he had been married a very long time and that you would been married a shorter time. Now you are saying he just got married last summer. Which is it?
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In your OP, you said he had been married a very long time and that you would been married a shorter time. Now you are saying he just got married last summer. Which is it?
typo, he has been married at least 5 yrs more than I have been
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