That feeling when sex/hooking up has lost its luster, any one else know how this feel? (date, women)
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is it me or does it truly get boring/pathetic after you've hooked up with a large number of chicks(25+)?
its gotten to the point where its not only not that physically satisfying but almost depressing. Anyone else know this feeling?(not here to brag or nothing) I thou hooking up would still be fun but it's almost not anymore
is it me or does it truly get boring/pathetic after you've hooked up with a large number of chicks(25+)?
its gotten to the point where its not only not that physically satisfying but almost depressing. Anyone else know this feeling?(not here to brag or nothing) I thou hooking up would still be fun but it's almost not anymore
And no its not the quality of women.
Most of us eventually grow out of certain behaviours. You've probably reached a point where you are looking for something with more substance, so instead of just hooking up, try and actually date people you feel a connection with. It makes sex a 100% better.
Most of us eventually grow out of certain behaviours. You've probably reached a point where you are looking for something with more substance, so instead of just hooking up, try and actually date people you feel a connection with. It makes sex a 100% better.
The problem with that is, that the OP might start getting attached to his dates/sex partners.
He seems to be on the right track, though; he's saying he's going to look for a serious LTR, now.
Good luck, OP! Drop us a note when you find happiness!
is it me or does it truly get boring/pathetic after you've hooked up with a large number of chicks(25+)?
its gotten to the point where its not only not that physically satisfying but almost depressing. Anyone else know this feeling?(not here to brag or nothing) I thou hooking up would still be fun but it's almost not anymore
And no its not the quality of women.
Yes it has happened to me few times mate
" bed hopping " does have its perks but surprisingly it does lose its appeal and at times it feels like something is missing. The happiest I've ever been was in a relationship and at first I missed going out and about but it felt complete.
I know relationships ain't for everyone but if I were you I'd take a break from it mate like I'm doing at the minute. It's great and you will enjoy or yearn for the company again
is it me or does it truly get boring/pathetic after you've hooked up with a large number of chicks(25+)?
its gotten to the point where its not only not that physically satisfying but almost depressing. Anyone else know this feeling?(not here to brag or nothing) I thou hooking up would still be fun but it's almost not anymore
And no its not the quality of women.
Well, I guess I wouldn't know. I've never had just totally meaningless, mutual maturation sex. Even the lonely two one nighters I've had in my life were with women I had a connection with. One especially. We had been friends for a long time. Co workers, and band mates. I was the drummer, she played bass. She was leaving for good after her divorce and it was her way of wanting to say goodbye. It was damn intense for a one time thing.
No , sex hasn't lost its allure, but I can see how it could, in your situation. I mean really, what's the point? Nothing to find special, nothing new to expect, no emotional connection, in, off n out the door. No desire to please, no going the extra mile, just a base, reflex action.
Yessir, you could do with a break and a fresh start.
" bed hopping " does have its perks but surprisingly it does lose its appeal and at times it feels like something is missing. The happiest I've ever been was in a relationship and at first I missed going out and about but it felt complete.
I know relationships ain't for everyone but if I were you I'd take a break from it mate like I'm doing at the minute. It's great and you will enjoy or yearn for the company again
Ps I mean becoming bored and not feeling pathetic
I did the bed hopping again over the weekend.
Except the girl I slept with I was hoping we would talk again and have something happen out of it.
But after she disappeared I kinda felt empty .
I didn't really wanted to just hook up but something more to happen out of it.
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