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Old 05-02-2016, 09:47 PM
 
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Yup. I used to get emotionally attached after the first time I had sex with someone. I barely feel anything now until I've slept with them for a month. Even masturbating isn't as fun as it used to be.
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Old 05-02-2016, 09:51 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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I did the bed hopping again over the weekend.
Except the girl I slept with I was hoping we would talk again and have something happen out of it.
But after she disappeared I kinda felt empty .
I didn't really wanted to just hook up but something more to happen out of it.
Happens all the time, both from them and me.

End of the day I see you posted that you are looking to settle down after my last post, well you clearly meet enough so I'm sure you will get the chance mate

If you are not 100% set that you want more please take my advice and just take a break from it you will feel a lot more refreshed and will enjoy sex again
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Old 05-02-2016, 09:53 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Yup. I used to get emotionally attached after the first time I had sex with someone. I barely feel anything now until I've slept with them for a month. Even masturbating isn't as fun as it used to be.
You just need a helping hand.......
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Old 05-02-2016, 10:01 PM
 
Location: Los Angeles CA
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Happens all the time, both from them and me.

End of the day I see you posted that you are looking to settle down after my last post, well you clearly meet enough so I'm sure you will get the chance mate

If you are not 100% set that you want more please take my advice and just take a break from it you will feel a lot more refreshed and will enjoy sex again
oh no its not that
theres a lot of beautiful woman out there don't get me wrong and lots of them are great I just wish one would stay with me permanently and make me feel wanted.

I won't give up that easily mate.
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Old 05-02-2016, 10:05 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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oh no its not that
theres a lot of beautiful woman out there don't get me wrong and lots of them are great I just wish one would stay with me permanently and make me feel wanted.

I won't give up that easily mate.
Well if that's the case why don't they stay with you?

In my case it's already arranged beforehand that it's nothing serious/fling/casual etc just for the sole purpose that we are both on the same page and no one gets hurt.

How do you go about it?, if you want more and they don't stick around then what puts them off about you?
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Old 05-02-2016, 10:10 PM
 
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Is it thou, OmegaSparks?
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Old 05-02-2016, 10:13 PM
 
Location: Los Angeles CA
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Well if that's the case why don't they stay with you?

In my case it's already arranged beforehand that it's nothing serious/fling/casual etc just for the sole purpose that we are both on the same page and no one gets hurt.

How do you go about it?, if you want more and they don't stick around then what puts them off about you?
Some of them admit they just wanted a one night stand after hooking up but then I get along with them so well that I wanted to turn it into something more.
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Old 05-02-2016, 10:14 PM
 
Location: Los Angeles CA
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You just need a helping hand.......
Lol
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Old 05-02-2016, 10:29 PM
 
Location: Avignon, France
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Maybe your boredom with sex is reflected in your performance and that's why she disappeared?
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Old 05-02-2016, 10:36 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Maybe your boredom with sex is reflected in your performance and that's why she disappeared?
Yes but at least 1 in 25+ should be satisfied..... Hopefully ( )
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