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Ridiculous. You won't date but want the benefits that come from dating, get real or do as others have suggested. Hire the services of a *****, excuse me I meant escort...and you will more than likely have other new issues to open threads on.
Ridiculous. You won't date but want the benefits that come from dating, get real or do as others have suggested. Hire the services of a *****, excuse me I meant escort...and you will more than likely have other new issues to open threads on.
No he just wants one benefit which is to get laid. You might as well just stick to hookers and escorts OP.
I'm 25 and never had sex. Long story short: major trust issues, short temper and anxiety. Tried to kill myself while in college and I still take meds.
Average looks, regular body even though I work out twice or three times a week. I'm currently in a very demanding trainee programme in a major energy company and I'm really tired when I get home. That's exactly when my sex drive is higher.
I started looking at escort ads about 3 years ago but never acted on it. If I like one of the women, I look at the pictures over and over again. It's the first thing I do when I get home. But then it's so expensive I eventually give up on the idea (we're not talking about random, low class prostitutes, you have to pay well for these). I think how many other things I want to buy, that I want to save for that trip abroad, etc.
Is this bad? I thought this would go away but it hasn't.
What are your expectations? How does this "go away" if you don't make some sort of change?
If that's true for most women then I suppose I'm doomed unless I pay for it.
i think the ladies on this forum can confirm what i said. they seem t represent a good cross section of the US female population, and they have a pretty god head on their shoulders. so yes, if you dont want to date women, and earn their trust to get sex from them, you will have to pay for it upfront. you are going to pay either way though, most women dont give it away for free.
If that's true for most women then I suppose I'm doomed unless I pay for it.
I wouldn't put it that way. Not wined and dined, but many women need to get to know a guy for awhile, so they can at least feel fairly sure he's not an axe murderer, and feel some rapport, before they get involved with him. It all depends. You could get lucky and hit it off with someone pretty quickly. But that's not going to happen if you have trust issues, anger, and anxiety.
I never mentioned anything regarding dating, just having sex. Not interested in dating at all, I have better things to do with my time other than going through drama to be honest.
This is a bad attitude especially for someone at your young age. You're on your way to become a creepy old guy. You need to learn how to build a normal relationship with a woman.
This is a bad attitude especially for someone at your young age. You're on your way to become a creepy old guy. You need to learn how to build a normal relationship with a woman.
If not for his biological urges, I don't think the OP would ever want to actually deal with people. Maybe that is the OP. Hookers and porn it is.
If you tried meditation and it did not work then that tells me that you did not properly achieve meditative states.
What type of meditation did you try? There are so many that it would take many trial and errors to find the one that works best for you.
Don't just toss it out simply because you were not successful. Achieving successful meditation sessions takes a lot of practice and self-discipline.
he probably started to try meditation, one time, decided he wasnt getting anywhere after a few minutes, declared it stupid in his tiny little mind, and moved onto another drug.
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