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We talked for like a week straight. There was flirting and such
She said she'd like to come up. I sai d"what you wanna do, and she said "cuddle"
She came over and we watched a movie while on the couch. I rubbed her legs and butt. We had pizza after and she laid down and said "rub my back please" and I did
Then we went to my room, we cuddled a bit then we got sexual and had sex. After we went putside and smoked a cig and we just talked. She had planned on spending the night but she said she wasn't going to
She asked if I wanted to have sex again and i said yes and we did.
Then she left. I walked her to her car and she said" well have a nice week.
I have not heard from her since and its been over a week
I've texted her once and snapchated once in that time
I have NO IDEA what I could have possibly done.
Unless she thinks i was uglier than what she had thought but I dont know. I sent her a picture before she came up and it wasnt the greatest because i'm horrible at selfies
i understand maybe it was just a one night stand but we had talked a week straight and it was really flirty
Do you think she was not attracted to me. I mean we didnt kiss or hug or anything along those lines
You have no idea what you could have done? It was Tinder. Like you said, a ONS. She came over, got to know you, decided you weren't enough her type to want to see you again, end of story.
If you're looking for more of a relationship, you need to use a different venue to meet women.
You didn't kiss or hug, but you had sex - twice - from your first meeting? You actually started out by saying you cuddled, were rubbing her legs, back, and butt.
Doesn't make sense to me.
If this is really what happened, then she was not happy with your prowess. Plain and simple.
Stop watching porn, and read an actual book about how to please a woman. If that is even remotely important to you.
You didn't kiss or hug, but you had sex - twice - from your first meeting? You actually started out by saying you cuddled, were rubbing her legs, back, and butt.
Doesn't make sense to me.
If this is really what happened, then she was not happy with your prowess. Plain and simple.
Stop watching porn, and read an actual book about how to please a woman. If that is even remotely important to you.
Maybe she didn't enjoy the sex, or had regrets for giving it up too soon. You did your part in making contact, now it's on her. If you don't hear from her then move on. Don't chase, don't ponder it any further.
You didn't kiss or hug, but you had sex - twice - from your first meeting? You actually started out by saying you cuddled, were rubbing her legs, back, and butt.
Doesn't make sense to me.
If this is really what happened, then she was not happy with your prowess. Plain and simple.
Stop watching porn, and read an actual book about how to please a woman. If that is even remotely important to you.
Um.. how do you know he watches porn?
OP were you hoping for something serious thing between you two? She probably didn't.
Or have others have said you didn't do it for her.
OP, she's just not that into you, that's all. There was no "mess up". You're over-analyzing. Move on, already. She has.
And btw, you're not the first guy to post here about a Tinder hook-up not turning into a relationship. If you want to make anything remotely resembling a relationship with someone, Tinder isn't the way to do it. Sure, some people get lucky and find a steady partner that way, but not too many use Tinder expecting that.
We talked for like a week straight. There was flirting and such
She said she'd like to come up. I sai d"what you wanna do, and she said "cuddle"
She came over and we watched a movie while on the couch. I rubbed her legs and butt. We had pizza after and she laid down and said "rub my back please" and I did
Then we went to my room, we cuddled a bit then we got sexual and had sex. After we went putside and smoked a cig and we just talked. She had planned on spending the night but she said she wasn't going to
She asked if I wanted to have sex again and i said yes and we did.
Then she left. I walked her to her car and she said" well have a nice week.
I have not heard from her since and its been over a week
I've texted her once and snapchated once in that time
I have NO IDEA what I could have possibly done.
Unless she thinks i was uglier than what she had thought but I dont know. I sent her a picture before she came up and it wasnt the greatest because i'm horrible at selfies
i understand maybe it was just a one night stand but we had talked a week straight and it was really flirty
Do you think she was not attracted to me. I mean we didnt kiss or hug or anything along those lines
It's a classic one nighter mate that's all
Don't beat yourself up thinking " what have I done? or am I uglier in person? " etc as she slept with you not once but twice so that PROVES its not you mate
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