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You've been told on your million other threads what to do, but you dont listen. All you want to know is how to get a husband. You've been told you dont just "get" husbands, that you need to be able to be happy with yourself, that someone else will not make you happy unless you are happy with yourself. But you dont listen.
Having someone love me will make me love myself more
Now that's just sad.
Your self esteem should not rely on another person's approval. That makes people run from you. You need to discover self love on your own, or else you will never be in a real loving relationship.
Your self esteem should not rely on another person's approval. That makes people run from you. You need to discover self love on your own, or else you will never be in a real loving relationship.
Honestly at this point to be I will be happy to be in any relationship
Honestly at this point to be I will be happy to be in any relationship
So a guy constantly beating the living crap out of you, calling you names, humiliating you, and is just really there to tell torture you, would be okay as long as he tells you he loves you and you can call him your boyfriend?
Honestly at this point to be I will be happy to be in any relationship
And that's how some women end up with abusers. Then their self-esteem gets even lower because the guy will verbally abuse you as well to have you thinking you deserve it, and how no man will ever want you but him. And trust me, that will not help you.
So, if you can't make decisions for yourself, here's one. DO NOT date right now. And do not hook-up either, as you don't seem stable enough for it. Hook-ups are not for people who are very sensitive.
Continue seeing your therapists, and try making platonic friends. And please find some other hobbies and activities to get into. Once your confidence has improved, and you have more positive things to enjoy in life, then your mood will improve, and you may attract more decent men, not young party guys who want to engage in illegal activities.
Yes, doing things that way probably won't get you a husband soon. But it may be better dating when you're in a better place.
So a guy constantly beating the living crap out of you, calling you names, humiliating you, and is just really there to tell torture you, would be okay as long as he tells you he loves you and you can call him your boyfriend?
Age is a number not the level of maturity one has reached.
You should continue with counseling and get yourself worked out before trying to find a husband or even trying to hook up. If you hook up with this, or any other, guy you will be right back here complaining when he doesn't marry you NOW.
Having someone love me will make me love myself more
Nope. Get your own self worth, quit trying to find someone else to give it to you.
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Nope. Get your own self worth, quit trying to find someone else to give it to you.
If only it were that easy
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