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Old 06-20-2016, 05:15 PM
 
Location: Eastern Washington
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Pretty much /thread. OP, what do we have to say here? You have documented enough aberrant behavior from this gal to be grounds to break up with at least a half-dozen girlfriends.

Just dump her already!
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Old 06-20-2016, 05:29 PM
 
Location: California side of the Sierras
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We've been dating for a year. Last night we went to a bar with our friends and we were having a great time when suddenly my girlfriend started to act a little angry and I asked her what's wrong and she said "That guy was checking me out, he was staring at me and i didn't like it!" I asked her "You were checking him out too? DId you like him?" She said "Of course not, I told you and I'm telling you, I didn't like it."

At least there were girls staring at me too because she said she saw a few girls staring at me but she didn't feel very jealous the way I did. I tried to cover my jealousy because we were together with our friends but from that moment my night was over! And I'm still angry and mad because I think she was checking him out too! What to do when this happens? What to do when guys is checking out my girlfriend? What to do if I catch girlfriend checking them too?
Oh, you should be super angry! Jump up and down while shrieking "Joshie doesn't like it!". Flap your arms like a bird at first, then hold them stiff like an airplane. Fly over to the man who dared to check out your girlfriend, making airplane noises as you go. When you reach the man, look him in the eye and cry "take that!" and step on his big toe. That will show him.
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Old 06-20-2016, 06:22 PM
 
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Oh, you should be super angry! Jump up and down while shrieking "Joshie doesn't like it!". Flap your arms like a bird at first, then hold them stiff like an airplane. Fly over to the man who dared to check out your girlfriend, making airplane noises as you go. When you reach the man, look him in the eye and cry "take that!" and step on his big toe. That will show him.
and then stick your tongue out at him.
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Old 06-20-2016, 06:25 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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And I'm still angry and mad because I think she was checking him out too! What to do when this happens? What to do when guys is checking out my girlfriend? What to do if I catch girlfriend checking them too?
Finish high school.

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Old 06-20-2016, 06:26 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Oh, you should be super angry! Jump up and down while shrieking "Joshie doesn't like it!". Flap your arms like a bird at first, then hold them stiff like an airplane. Fly over to the man who dared to check out your girlfriend, making airplane noises as you go. When you reach the man, look him in the eye and cry "take that!" and step on his big toe. That will show him.
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and then stick your tongue out at him.

Love it!
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Old 06-23-2016, 03:10 PM
 
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So what should I do if I catch her checking out other guys in front of me? Should I check out girls in front of her too?
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Old 06-23-2016, 03:21 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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So what should I do if I catch her checking out other guys in front of me? Should I check out girls in front of her too?
If you "catch her"?

Adults in relationships don't play games like this.
They aren't so rude as to leer at others if they're dating someone.
They aren't so insecure that they worry about their partner checking out other people.

If you are doing any of the above, you should break up and not date anyone else until you've had a lot of therapy.
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Old 06-23-2016, 05:23 PM
 
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So what should I do if I catch her checking out other guys in front of me? Should I check out girls in front of her too?
The problem isn't her. The problem is you.
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Old 06-24-2016, 11:21 AM
 
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Guys, days ago I had my first therapy session!
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Old 06-24-2016, 11:36 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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that's awesome.


What did she/he say?
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