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Incidentally I see it went well with him the other night so a big for you. Have you arranged a second date? If so was it on the night and in person?
It's not looking good so far. He texted me yesterday and today to ask what I'm doing, how's my day going, etc., but he doesn't suggest a second date. I feel like I've been really obvious about my interest, but it's like pulling teeth with him.
It's not looking good so far. He texted me yesterday and today to ask what I'm doing, how's my day going, etc., but he doesn't suggest a second date. I feel like I've been really obvious about my interest, but it's like pulling teeth with him.
Hope you don't mind me asking but I've got to love.....if youre this keen on him why didn't you ask him for the second date?
Or even style it out with a " sooooooo...... Are we going to do this again? " sort of thing, if asking directly is not for you.
Hope you don't mind me asking but I've got to love.....if youre this keen on him why didn't you ask him for the second date?
Or even style it out with a " sooooooo...... Are we going to do this again? " sort of thing, if asking directly is not for you.
Because I'm the one who suggested that we meet the first time. Do I have to do it EVERY time? I'm not sure if he's just super passive, not that into me, or both. As I said, he's spent a lot of time living outside of the US, so I don't know if maybe he's used to different social customs. But at some point, I'm going to need for him to initiate something.
Because I'm the one who suggested that we meet the first time. Do I have to do it EVERY time? I'm not sure if he's just super passive, not that into me, or both. As I said, he's spent a lot of time living outside of the US, so I don't know if maybe he's used to different social customs. But at some point, I'm going to need for him to initiate something.
Yeah I forgot you sad hello in the first place sorry
Because I'm the one who suggested that we meet the first time. Do I have to do it EVERY time? I'm not sure if he's just super passive, not that into me, or both. As I said, he's spent a lot of time living outside of the US, so I don't know if maybe he's used to different social customs. But at some point, I'm going to need for him to initiate something.
Yeah I forgot you sad hello in the first place sorry
But yeah in that case he should get off his arse
He's...interesting. I really can't tell whether he's this naive or if he's just not that interested, so I'll have to wait and see. My friend had to initiate every single thing with her husband when they first met (she even had to ask him to propose), but they are married now so I guess it worked out!
He's...interesting. I really can't tell whether he's this naive or if he's just not that interested, so I'll have to wait and see. My friend had to initiate every single thing with her husband when they first met (she even had to ask him to propose), but they are married now so I guess it worked out!
Personally I've no idea either LOL.....
I know what you are saying sugar but if you are this interested in him I still think it's worth I initiating as he may be a slow starter..... You never know.
I'm surprised you are prepared to wait and see ..... That would drive me mad!
Maybe I'm just old school and looking at it from that point of view, but when a man wants a woman for something other than just booty time and he knows that she likes him, you don't have any of this wishy-washy crap I've been reading through this thread and all over this forum over the years.
When a man wants a woman for a relationship and he thinks she's into him he goes for it. Worthy of a repeat.
If he's dragging his feet most likely he wasn't into her or he doesn't want a relationship. This stuff isn't rocket science people.
I know what you are saying sugar but if you are this interested in him I still think it's worth I initiating as he may be a slow starter..... You never know.
I'm surprised you are prepared to wait and see ..... That would drive me mad!
It's only because he seems a bit "different" that I'm willing to give it more time and see what happens. Whether it's a good "different" or a bad "different" remains to be seen. lol
It's only because he seems a bit "different" that I'm willing to give it more time and see what happens. Whether it's a good "different" or a bad "different" remains to be seen. lol
Yeah I'm dying for the update sugar!!!!! LOL
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for you. Have you arranged a second date? If so was it on the night and in person?
