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Don't ask don't tell.
Exception made for funny OLD stories, I love hearing those!
Well.... Ahem ..... LOL
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Originally Posted by Chowhound
Like just about any other subject, some will and some won't. Men tend to exaggerate up and women tend to lower their number.
That's so true mate! It's painfully true infact with some of the blokes ive known .... " oh I went out twice last weekend and shagged 3.... They've all been ringing me ... Non stop to see them again and think I'm the best ever "
I don't know about y'all, but I have avoided doing anything that I would be ashamed of. I'm not saying I am above judgment, but I cannot be shamed by my choices in life. If my guy took issue with anything in my past, then he wouldn't be my guy.
And to a select few others posting in this thread - midgets and donkeys, really? Is that the freakiest you've got?
an individual who doesn't feel like their past is anyone else's business is not necessarily ashamed of it.
This.
I can't imagine a scenario where I would want to be with someone who felt that it was important to have the rundown of my sexual history. I am not ashamed of it. I would simply not be compatible with someone who placed any sort of importance on knowing a "number".
That's kind of where I sit, I'm not really a jealous guy but I don't need to know all of the details. I get that she's not a virgin and all and I don't need to know about that one time with that one guy.....
Right, getting into details just isn't necessary unless there's a point to be made.
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Originally Posted by usayit
an individual who doesn't feel like their past is anyone else's business is not necessarily ashamed of it.
Thanks, I was married for 20 years, and proud to say my number was ONE during that time. I just don't find it necessary to get a running list of anyone else's exploits. I will answer questions like: "most interesting location?" or "ever have a 3-some", but numbers...eh...who cares.
I don't know about y'all, but I have avoided doing anything that I would be ashamed of. I'm not saying I am above judgment, but I cannot be shamed by my choices in life. If my guy took issue with anything in my past, then he wouldn't be my guy.
And to a select few others posting in this thread - midgets and donkeys, really? Is that the freakiest you've got?
I would tend to agree. I have a couple of things in my past that if I were to do differently I would have but other than that I tend to be a bit on the vanilla side. I haven't been with so many women that it would raise an eyebrow, but enough to know better.
I think for me if I found out that the woman I was seeing turned out to have been a stripper or a prostitute it would be a deal breaker for me. I mean we could hang out and have a few dates, but not bringing her home to meet momma if you follow me.
My wife pretty much knows all about my past, The good the bad and the ugly
She is fine with it, I am not the same person I was all those years ago and by this point our history together has shown her all she needs to understand about me.
I am of the mindset that only the people afraid of judgment and guilty of it are the only ones who attempt to keep so much of their past in the past.
I don't know about y'all, but I have avoided doing anything that I would be ashamed of. I'm not saying I am above judgment, but I cannot be shamed by my choices in life. If my guy took issue with anything in my past, then he wouldn't be my guy.
And to a select few others posting in this thread - midgets and donkeys, really? Is that the freakiest you've got?
Right, I don't have anything I could even get defensive about. The point of deciding anyone's in a position to judge though, makes me uneasy, if one were to ask me for my sexual history I might find them a little odd, and want to know why they need to know? When you're with someone for a long enough time in a committed relationship, they usually get the general info anyway...marriage, what you like and don't like...without a detailed autobiography. With pictures of the midget. On a donkey.
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