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So it's been awhile since I've posted but here it goes.
Lately I've been hanging out with this girl and she is absolutely great. We tend to finish eachother's sentences and I've never been so comfortable around someone my whole life (a whopping 17 years).
I'm not joking when we have everything in common, same taste in music, movies, dating, and sex. So needless to say I'm helplessly head over heels for this girl. Now comes to the trouble, she has a boyfriend, and he is absolutely bat**** crazy. He steals her phone and texts me and tells me she hates me and then deletes all the texts like nothing happened. I keep telling her but all she does is forgive him. What should I do?
All I know is that I feel like Jim from The Office on a spiritual level, when he's in love with Pam while she's dating that one dude.
Dude, what part of "she has a bf" don't you understand? Have you been dating this woman, or something? How did you happen to get head-over-heels for her, finishing her sentences, etc., if she has a bf? Did she tell you she's breaking up with him? Doesn't sound like that's happening, from what you say. Maybe he thinks you're the one who's bat--- crazy, for even thinking of putting the moves on her, knowing she has a bf.
Dude, get over her, she is untouchable. I got caught up with a married chick and in the end she chose her husband. Broke my heart so bad, never again will I make that mistake. Save yourself the heartbreak, real talk.
OP, you are what's called an orbiter, friendzone type
And I'm going to share something that I really want you to think about: Did it ever occur to you that she keeps you around cuz she gets off (emotional rush) on her bf going bat*** crazy over her interactions with you?
Yup,chicks do that kind of stuff so let that sink in.
Try kissing her, that will give an idea of where you stand with her.
Seriously, I'm not kidding. Cuz if you dont got the ballz to do that, you dont have what it takes to steal her from her bf. Attractive women often need a bridge to leave a relationship, they go from bf to bf cuz it minimizes the break up drama. Case in point Taylor Swift and her break up with Calvin Harris. So if you cant do that or she rejects your kiss, save yourself from that situation
Dude, what part of "she has a bf" don't you understand? Have you been dating this woman, or something? How did you happen to get head-over-heels for her, finishing her sentences, etc., if she has a bf? Did she tell you she's breaking up with him? Doesn't sound like that's happening, from what you say. Maybe he thinks you're the one who's bat--- crazy, for even thinking of putting the moves on her, knowing she has a bf.
Pretty much this^
Do you think you're going to somehow rescue her from an abusive bf? Sorry, but its not going to happen. You're fantasizing.
Dude, there's a ton of other girls out there.... that are single. Don't waste your time. Move on!
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Did she tell you she's breaking up with him? Doesn't sound like that's happening, from what you say. Maybe he thinks you're the one who's bat--- crazy, for even thinking of putting the moves on her, knowing she has a bf.
Naysayers!
