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Stop assuming men have a problem if they reject you, stop assuming men are intimidated by you if they reject you. Most of the time they just don't like you.
Truth! I've passed a few profiles alluding to this lately. "Don't be scaredy cats" was one headline. No, she doesn't come across as being good enough for her demands, either. No shocks there.
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Originally Posted by behindthescreen
Be open minded.
Don't be so picky or demanding that you miss out on meeting someone special.
That's tough, especially for those immersed in OD sites where you can set the exact height range you desire and check off diet preference and a list of hobbies to match. IOW, just find your own identical twin. Voila!
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Originally Posted by Cardiff Giant
Cool, glad I could clarify. It was a pretty vague statement that could be taken many different ways.
Glad you did. Seeing "Looking for that one man who isn't like the others" on women's profile headlines puts up serious red flags.
Each and every time? So, you never tried it? This shows that it is a principle for you.
Based on what?
I would understand more if you accepted some times and were disappointed?!
I accepted twice and yes I was disappointed and yes I would say no because she's a woman and she asked. It takes the fun out of dating. I'd rather go after what I want over waiting for a woman to approach me which is most likely never to happen again.
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Seeing "Looking for that one man who isn't like the others" on women's profile headlines puts up serious red flags.[/QUOTE]
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Who says such a crap in one's profile headline?..:-(((
I think 49ers embraces being the hunter. Nothing wrong with that. In my experiences when women have asked me out, usually there was an OBVIOUS reason why I wasn't interested enough to ask them first.
Don't settle for less than what you truly want. You are under absolutely no obligation to be "open-minded" when it comes to deciding who is the right partner for you.
"Now, tell me, why does such a cutie not have a boyfriend?"
Very logic question! But I was speechless and the only thing I could say was....Well...??? and shrugged.
This was the first and only time I approach a man first.
You're a woman? This whole time I thought you were male.
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