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Old 10-08-2012, 07:00 AM
 
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What would it be, in regards to dating and relationships
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Old 10-08-2012, 07:05 AM
 
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Great topic.

I would say that the #1 piece of advice would be to not use 'bad boys' or 'jerks' as role models even though plenty of hot chicks are attracted to this type of man. If you are not a 'bad boy' type and you're a 'nice guy' type, stay a nice guy type and if they don't like it, that's their loss.
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Old 10-08-2012, 07:09 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Take your time and LISTEN to your instincts. Those "worries" are reservations that you need to pay attention to.

Don't be afraid that you'll never find anyone better.

If you're lucky, life is long. You don't have to commit so early.

Does that count as one??
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Old 10-08-2012, 07:10 AM
 
Location: Des Moines IA
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My piece of advice would be to not be so eager
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Old 10-08-2012, 07:12 AM
 
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Old 10-08-2012, 07:14 AM
 
Location: Denver, Colorado
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Lighten up, have more fun and trust your instincts.
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Old 10-08-2012, 07:16 AM
 
Location: NY
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I was a train wreck trying to date or have romantic relations when I was a teen (and in my early 20's). Far too many things going on for one bit of advice.

However, to keep my response short, it would be to communciate more, and guess less. I was always trying to act or say things in response to what I thought the women were thinking. Trying to overanalyze words, actions, situations, etc. Stop guessing, start asking.
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Old 10-08-2012, 07:24 AM
 
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Dont believe in whats shown in movies or tv shows about relationships. They are hardly based on real life.
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Old 10-08-2012, 07:27 AM
 
Location: Central California
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Be more confident, always make a move, and don't put women on a pedestal.
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Old 10-08-2012, 07:28 AM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Take all the advantage of your singleness you possibly can. This is the one time where you can go for something big and not really have it bite you or any kids you have in the a&$. So if you are going to start a business, get an advanced degree, travel to a far off place, or do something totally outside of you, now is the time.
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