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I won't put my life on Hold but I guess I just wanna know if we can be something more than friends when we meet
You won't know that until you meet. Is it possible? Sure. But it's not something that can be decided prior to the two of you spending time in the same place.
You KNOW the answer to that!
In post #1 you said - numerous times...
Why are you refusing to listen to her?
Well, since she is only 18, and insecure and confused herself, she might change her mind, tomorrow, @ the drop of a hat. Let's see how she and he think in summer 2017, if they are ready to wait that long. A lot can happen till then, for both.
Because she is still talking to me right now, and because she said she will go on a date with me when we meet
o.k., here you have it again, she does not want you to come over at Christmas.
So, stay in contact with her, email, text, etc....until she comes over in Summer of 2017.
Good luck, it seems that she is for real.
Not everybody who does not want to skype is a catfish, some people just do not like to skype.
Some people to not like to talk on the phone, not all are catfish.
People are different.
I live outside of Manchester, and she hasn't picked the final University yet
And yeah I do have a lot of time and emotion invested in her because i thought she cared too, I think I've already accepted that nothing might happen between us but there is still some hope that maybe when we meet something can happen
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But if i do wait for her that long do you think we can actually have a relationship together or will she not be interested ?
It's hard to say whether you'll have a relationship together. It's still early days yet - you are still at the point where you are getting to know each other.
If you are both really serious about each other, then there is the option of her applying to a Uni near or around the Manchester area. It will have to be her decision though - although you could suggest it to her.
It's hard to say whether you'll have a relationship together. It's still early days yet - you are still at the point where you are getting to know each other.
If you are both really serious about each other, then there is the option of her applying to a Uni near or around the Manchester area. It will have to be her decision though - although you could suggest it to her.
o.k., here you have it again, she does not want you to come over at Christmas.
So, stay in contact with her, email, text, etc....until she comes over in Summer of 2017.
Good luck, it seems that she is for real.
Not everybody who does not want to skype is a catfish, some people just do not like to skype.
Some people to not like to talk on the phone, not all are catfish.
People are different.
but when she does come over
will it work ?
is there anything i can do to make it work or will it fail ?
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