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Old 09-18-2016, 03:03 PM
 
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I won't put my life on Hold but I guess I just wanna know if we can be something more than friends when we meet
You won't know that until you meet. Is it possible? Sure. But it's not something that can be decided prior to the two of you spending time in the same place.
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Old 09-18-2016, 03:06 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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I won't put my life on Hold but I guess I just wanna know if we can be something more than friends when we meet
You KNOW the answer to that!
In post #1 you said - numerous times...
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she flipped out at me, said she would never love me and would always see me as nothing more than a freind
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she has kept talking to me less and less and she no longer says she loves me or likes me and sees me nothing more than a freind.
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But at the same time she says i am nothing more than a freind, and that she will never love me
Why are you refusing to listen to her?
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Old 09-18-2016, 03:06 PM
 
Location: NYC
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But if i do wait for her that long do you think we can actually have a relationship together or will she not be interested ?
Well, HOW should WE know that? We are not "clairevoyants."
This depends only on you and her, in Summer of 2017.
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Old 09-18-2016, 03:12 PM
 
Location: NYC
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You KNOW the answer to that!
In post #1 you said - numerous times...





Why are you refusing to listen to her?
Well, since she is only 18, and insecure and confused herself, she might change her mind, tomorrow, @ the drop of a hat. Let's see how she and he think in summer 2017, if they are ready to wait that long. A lot can happen till then, for both.
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Old 09-18-2016, 03:16 PM
 
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You KNOW the answer to that!
In post #1 you said - numerous times...





Why are you refusing to listen to her?

Because she is still talking to me right now, and because she said she will go on a date with me when we meet
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Old 09-18-2016, 03:21 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Because she is still talking to me right now, and because she said she will go on a date with me when we meet
o.k., here you have it again, she does not want you to come over at Christmas.
So, stay in contact with her, email, text, etc....until she comes over in Summer of 2017.
Good luck, it seems that she is for real.

Not everybody who does not want to skype is a catfish, some people just do not like to skype.
Some people to not like to talk on the phone, not all are catfish.
People are different.
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Old 09-18-2016, 03:23 PM
 
Location: South Wales, United Kingdom
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I live outside of Manchester, and she hasn't picked the final University yet

And yeah I do have a lot of time and emotion invested in her because i thought she cared too, I think I've already accepted that nothing might happen between us but there is still some hope that maybe when we meet something can happen
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But if i do wait for her that long do you think we can actually have a relationship together or will she not be interested ?
It's hard to say whether you'll have a relationship together. It's still early days yet - you are still at the point where you are getting to know each other.

If you are both really serious about each other, then there is the option of her applying to a Uni near or around the Manchester area. It will have to be her decision though - although you could suggest it to her.
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Old 09-18-2016, 03:28 PM
 
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It's hard to say whether you'll have a relationship together. It's still early days yet - you are still at the point where you are getting to know each other.

If you are both really serious about each other, then there is the option of her applying to a Uni near or around the Manchester area. It will have to be her decision though - although you could suggest it to her.
But do you think she is serious about me or not ?
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Old 09-18-2016, 03:30 PM
 
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o.k., here you have it again, she does not want you to come over at Christmas.
So, stay in contact with her, email, text, etc....until she comes over in Summer of 2017.
Good luck, it seems that she is for real.

Not everybody who does not want to skype is a catfish, some people just do not like to skype.
Some people to not like to talk on the phone, not all are catfish.
People are different.
but when she does come over
will it work ?
is there anything i can do to make it work or will it fail ?
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Old 09-18-2016, 03:30 PM
 
Location: NYC
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But do you think she is serious about me or not ?
How should we now?
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