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Originally Posted by LexRunner
This a just a small clip from our text message history, it explains how things are going so far: [snip]
I met this girl over 2 weeks ago and we hit off incredibly well. Our first date was a success and we hung out together everyday for about a week. She stayed over at my place every night during that first week.
Then things slowly fell apart. She started not wanting to come over or hang out, she would often times not respond to my calls or text. Basically, she did a complete 180. She always brings up how busy she is with work and all, and I understand so I back off a bit and giver her some space.
Yesterday she sent me a wall of text letting me know that she is sorry that she hasn't been able to hang out these past few days and that she is still interesting in me. I truly think she is a genuine person and don't want to lose her. Where do I go from here, is she still worth pursuing?
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Well, if she outright says she's still interested in you and it's only been one week of not hanging out and being seemingly too busy to deal with calls and texts, I'd take her at her word. Life can be intense, and some people are disorganized and are bad about texting back, we all have our flaws, I wouldn't read into it if she's telling you she really is busy and is romantically interested. So, if you like her, why wouldn't she be worth pursuing? Sounds like a trifle to drop someone you seem to like over.
EDIT: Okay, I read your convos on Imgur. The woman obviously likes you, but if you don't mind me being blunt, you need to give a person like that a bit of space. It's tough to reason out someone's character from a set of texts, but you remind me a bit of an old friend who was a bit needy and often ended up only pushing people away by trying to get codependent (and quick). I could be totally off, so I hope you're not insulted, but I at least empathize most with her being busy with life and needing to recharge after what sounds like pretty intense and regular interaction. Just have some chill and let her set the pace a bit.