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Old 12-02-2016, 05:01 PM
 
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I have never once had the urge to look at old pics of my exes' private areas with fond nostalgia, but to each his or her own.
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Old 12-02-2016, 06:18 PM
 
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Pshaw. I know every woman I've spent D*ck picks too still fawn all over them, wishing they still had that in there life.
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Old 12-02-2016, 07:08 PM
 
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i don't have any nude pictures of any ex's. never did have any. someone i was dating for a short time about a year ago sent a d-pic and i was not amused. deleted it right away. wth? why do guys do that? i definitely didn't ask nor want that! haha! that was weird.

if i ever had any naked pictures of any ex's i wouldn't keep them. what would be the point? eh...i guess i can see guys keeping them of females. i wouldn't be thrilled to know my husband (if i had one!) had nude pictures of his ex or ex's. but i guess i'll cross that bridge if i ever get to it.
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Old 12-02-2016, 07:51 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Yep. Oil paintings,drawings,sketches,etc.
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Old 12-02-2016, 08:23 PM
 
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Yep. Oil paintings,drawings,sketches,etc.
You have oil paintings of a nude ex???
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Old 12-03-2016, 02:26 AM
 
Location: Kaliforneea
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I guess I came from the era before smartphones, so sending 'nudes' was not common. You people shaking a Polaroid for $1.00 a shot, and keeping them since 1986?

sending 'nudes' I think only because quasi- socially acceptable post 2007 (when the iPhone premiered).

I only have (unsolicited!) nudes from 2 ex gfs, and they were both in the past 5 years. they are absolute treasured memories and I would never delete them. I've moved them off the phone and they are squirreled away on a harddrive, that nobody could EVER find, unless I was dead or waterboard tortured.

I do have a box in the garage of old love letters, that I plan on turning into a novel one day, maybe. Just as offensive to the suspicious mind...

My gf two turns ago, told me a long story about finding a VCR-camcorder porn her ex made with his prior gf, she made him burn it in the fireplace when she found it. (To solidify her Supremacy in his Universe).

My last two casual gfs, Quite Enthusiatically shared their p0rnhub dot com bookmarks and favorites - So everybody's different, if you just reach out far enough in your sample.

I am not friends in the present with ANY of my ex'es. I would NEVER make anything that could end up on the Internet after a Jerry Springer bad breakup.
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Old 12-03-2016, 09:07 AM
 
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Why would you keep nude pics of an ex at all? I would burn or delete the pics right after I break up with them. At that point, I probably don't even want to look at their face let alone their body.
I agree. Plus, I think if a person kept nudes of an ex even after getting into a serious relationship later with someone else, it's just asking for trouble because it could very well be just a matter of time before the current partner finds out what you're hiding.

And it wouldn't make much difference if the nudes were hidden on a computer or kept in a box: people get busted either way for stuff like this and even less.
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Old 12-03-2016, 12:24 PM
 
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It seems vaguely like infidelity to me. Sort of as if you're still sleeping with the ex - and for an extra "idk" factor, without the ex's permission.
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Old 12-03-2016, 06:41 PM
 
Location: Pa
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You have oil paintings of a nude ex???
I do. It's put away,but I may need firewood. HAHAHA
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Old 12-03-2016, 06:44 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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You might as well keep them. In 30 years, they won't look as hot.
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