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Old 12-04-2016, 10:59 PM
 
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What kind of phone call are we talking about? A brief checking-in, or a long chat about mutual interests and everything under the sun? I wouldn't have time for a long phone visit daily.
I typically talk to my new exclusive gf 30 mins to 1 and a half hour every night. We just finished an amazing 1 hour n 10 min phone call. We know each other's schedule and I know she's laying in bed pretty much every night at this time

Today I straight up asked her "are you ok with me calling you every night? I don't want you to feel smothered" and she said of course she is..she likes it

So I guess it works for us

Personally I just love hearing her voice every night, I can't help it. Even if it's 3 mins
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Old 12-04-2016, 11:21 PM
 
Location: 415->916->602
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If i liked her, then no. I expect to talk to her everyday.
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Old 12-05-2016, 12:11 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I typically talk to my new exclusive gf 30 mins to 1 and a half hour every night. We just finished an amazing 1 hour n 10 min phone call. We know each other's schedule and I know she's laying in bed pretty much every night at this time

Today I straight up asked her "are you ok with me calling you every night? I don't want you to feel smothered" and she said of course she is..she likes it

So I guess it works for us

Personally I just love hearing her voice every night, I can't help it. Even if it's 3 mins
Its all lovey dovey in the beginning, but give it some time to get annoying, Lol.
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Old 12-05-2016, 12:56 AM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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Wouldn't mind. However, I would not want these 45-1 hour plus marathon calls on a consistent basis either, lol.

I also would hate to be texting 24/7. As much as I would like my SO, I still have a life that involves doing my own things.
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Old 12-05-2016, 01:16 AM
 
Location: Ohio
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if you cant talk on the phone every night, how will you one day marry and live with this person every day of your life?
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Old 12-05-2016, 02:31 AM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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if you cant talk on the phone every night, how will you one day marry and live with this person every day of your life?
Not everyone is looking at marriage and cohabitation as the endgame for a relationship.
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Old 12-05-2016, 03:40 AM
 
Location: Ohio
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Not everyone is looking at marriage and cohabitation as the endgame for a relationship.
For most people it is the goal
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Old 12-05-2016, 04:33 AM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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For most people it is the goal
Well, it's not my goal so I don't need to talk to a significant other each night. That'd get annoying real fast.
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Old 12-05-2016, 04:43 AM
 
Location: Hamburg, Deutschland
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Not just casual dating, but EXCLUSIVELY dating. Is calling every night too much? Would you feel annoyed or smothered?
Can it really happen differently? At this point, if you love each other and are invested in each other, of course you would want to talk to each other every day! If you don't, it means there has never been a real interest in the first place.
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Old 12-05-2016, 05:11 AM
 
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Not just casual dating, but EXCLUSIVELY dating. Is calling every night too much? Would you feel annoyed or smothered?
It would be fine.
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