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Old 12-31-2016, 08:29 AM
 
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I mean, did you show her that you were thinking of her, too, or was it all one sided?

If it wasn't working and you tried to tell her why, and it still didn't work, that's all you can do.

Just make sure you aren't expecting someone to be all into you when you aren't reciprocating.
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Old 12-31-2016, 08:37 AM
 
Location: between Mars and Venus
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I just broke up with a girl I've been together with for 2 months over us constantly having the same reoccurring communication issue. I feel kind of bad about it, but I explained to her so many times what my expectations were in a relationship and she just couldn't stay consistent with it. It boiled down to I'm a very passionate type who likes to feel thought of and she's more distant and self centered. We had very compatible personalities and great sex life otherwise but this for me is just a deal breaker. It stings a bit right now but I believe Im dodging alot of pain and dissapointment in the long run.

Anyone else experience something similar?

No, You don't have very compatiblie personalities. Also, you demand her to keep up your expectations consistently but I don't read about you keeping up to hers.

Anyway, you made your decision I don't see what other issues are there.
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Old 12-31-2016, 08:45 AM
 
Location: Canada
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I explained to her so many times what my expectations were in a relationship and she just couldn't stay consistent with it.
This is not a model for a healthy and mutually beneficial relationship.
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Old 12-31-2016, 09:39 AM
 
Location: Dallas Texas
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This is not a model for a healthy and mutually beneficial relationship.
It works for macho men, because macho men don't compromise!
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Old 12-31-2016, 10:25 AM
 
Location: Canada
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It works for macho men, because macho men don't compromise!
Cue The Village People...
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Old 12-31-2016, 11:06 AM
 
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I mean, did you show her that you were thinking of her, too, or was it all one sided?

If it wasn't working and you tried to tell her why, and it still didn't work, that's all you can do.

Just make sure you aren't expecting someone to be all into you when you aren't reciprocating.
I always showed her I was thinking of her
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Old 12-31-2016, 11:08 AM
 
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No, You don't have very compatiblie personalities. Also, you demand her to keep up your expectations consistently but I don't read about you keeping up to hers.

Anyway, you made your decision I don't see what other issues are there.
You didn't read it because when i wrote im a passionate person you should've already assumed I did. Instead of assuming things you don't know
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Old 12-31-2016, 11:09 AM
 
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This is not a model for a healthy and mutually beneficial relationship.
You're right, I wasn't getting any mutual benefit.
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Old 12-31-2016, 11:23 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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You don't know anything about me
What I do know is that its only been two months and you had been arguing constantly over the same issue. I don't know about your definition of compatibility, but arguing constantly so early in relatioship isn't what I call compatible.

Meethinks, you only lasted two months because of the sex.
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Old 12-31-2016, 11:55 AM
 
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If your wants and needs are not being met in your relationship, then it was best to end it...regardless of what your wants and needs are. You just have to be reasonable with what your wants and needs are.

I have a friend who LOVES a clingy/needy guy. She is insecure and she knows it. To her, if a guy messages her every minute, telling her she is thought of, she's in heaven ...and she reciprocates it. But, that's her.

So...ya...there are women out there who are better suited for your wants and needs.
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