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Old 12-30-2016, 11:30 PM
 
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I just broke up with a girl I've been together with for 2 months over us constantly having the same reoccurring communication issue. I feel kind of bad about it, but I explained to her so many times what my expectations were in a relationship and she just couldn't stay consistent with it. It boiled down to I'm a very passionate type who likes to feel thought of and she's more distant and self centered. We had very compatible personalities and great sex life otherwise but this for me is just a deal breaker. It stings a bit right now but I believe Im dodging alot of pain and dissapointment in the long run.

Anyone else experience something similar?
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Old 12-30-2016, 11:42 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Ive let go women because it just wasn't working out. I can compromise not having great sex, but I cant compromise drama. Drama is for chumps.
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Old 12-30-2016, 11:53 PM
 
Location: Avignon, France
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Poor baby.... she didn't give you her undivided attention. That girl probably doesn't know how lucky she was that you broke up with her. That's not " passionate " it's needy, clingy and I am betting possessive and a control freak to boot.
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Old 12-31-2016, 12:50 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Poor baby.... she didn't give you her undivided attention. That girl probably doesn't know how lucky she was that you broke up with her. That's not " passionate " it's needy, clingy and I am betting possessive and a control freak to boot.
I was going to say something similar, but I do admire someone that knows exactly what they want in relationship, and if that person isn't happy, they're willing to end it. Is he clingy? You bet he is, Lol. But that's just how some people are in relationships; suffocating.

He just needs to find someone like him, so they can choke each other out
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Old 12-31-2016, 02:21 AM
 
Location: Jacksonville
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Poor baby.... she didn't give you her undivided attention. That girl probably doesn't know how lucky she was that you broke up with her. That's not " passionate " it's needy, clingy and I am betting possessive and a control freak to boot.
I mean, I wasn't getting that vibe from out of his post.

And I even re-read it a few times just to make sure.

He said you wasn't feeling thought of, who knows exactly what that meant? Maybe she was completely ignoring him and only talking about herself. Maybe she refused to scratch his back or something. Who knows? I think this is kind of jumping to conclusions though, I don't see enough info to suggest that him not feeling thought of meant that she wasn't giving him her undivided attention.

But maybe there's something way over my head here?
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Old 12-31-2016, 02:21 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I'd get bored and move on.
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Old 12-31-2016, 04:27 AM
 
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Poor baby.... she didn't give you her undivided attention. That girl probably doesn't know how lucky she was that you broke up with her. That's not " passionate " it's needy, clingy and I am betting possessive and a control freak to boot.
Wtf?
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Old 12-31-2016, 04:32 AM
 
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I was going to say something similar, but I do admire someone that knows exactly what they want in relationship, and if that person isn't happy, they're willing to end it. Is he clingy? You bet he is, Lol. But that's just how some people are in relationships; suffocating.

He just needs to find someone like him, so they can choke each other out
You don't know anything about me
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Old 12-31-2016, 04:36 AM
 
Location: Florida
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You don't know anything about me

On here, they don't have to.You'll get their opinions anyway and most won't be kind or generous.
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Old 12-31-2016, 04:46 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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Man's view: The sex wasn't good enough.
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