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Old 01-15-2017, 05:07 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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I have to believe that we will be. THe ex said she's done with him as she felt blindsided by the information too. If she's out of the picture, we should be good.

I can't understand how this can be an acceptable outcome for you.

He lied to you and he is only "yours" because she dumped him. Honestly, sounds like if someone else crosses his path you will be in the same predicament.

Hope I'm wrong, but use protection!
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Old 01-15-2017, 05:52 PM
 
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I can't understand how this can be an acceptable outcome for you.

He lied to you and he is only "yours" because she dumped him. Honestly, sounds like if someone else crosses his path you will be in the same predicament.

Hope I'm wrong, but use protection!
SO you feel that I am the constellation prize?

I just feel that she's the one interfering here.
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Old 01-15-2017, 05:59 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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SO you feel that I am the constellation prize?

I just feel that she's the one interfering here.
If that is the case, your BF could resolve that easily and much more effectively than you could by just telling her to back off, that he's happy with you.

If he wanted to.
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Old 01-15-2017, 06:12 PM
 
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If that is the case, your BF could resolve that easily and much more effectively than you could by just telling her to back off, that he's happy with you.

If he wanted to.
You're right. And from what I know I don't think she's a problem right now. Haven't heard from here since I last spoke with her. I told her that she needs to lean on people that are good for her ( meaning for her to just stay away). Maybe I don't have to worry about him being in touch with her. He knows they are over so I hope I can trust that he's not in touch with her after all that drama.
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Old 01-15-2017, 06:13 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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SO you feel that I am the constellation prize?

I just feel that she's the one interfering here.

It's on your BOYFRIEND, not her. She came clean when she found out, and she doesn't owe you squat.

Your BF is the one who should have a loyalty to you.
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Old 01-15-2017, 06:14 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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You're right. And from what I know I don't think she's a problem right now. Haven't heard from here since I last spoke with her. I told her that she needs to lean on people that are good for her ( meaning for her to just stay away). Maybe I don't have to worry about him being in touch with her. He knows they are over so I hope I can trust that he's not in touch with her after all that drama.


She may be gone, but you KNOW he is dishonest.

There are women everywhere, you can't keep track of them all....
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Old 01-15-2017, 06:18 PM
 
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She may be gone, but you KNOW he is dishonest.

There are women everywhere, you can't keep track of them all....
I guess I am more threatened by her ( yeah I'll admit that) because of the feelings there. But do you think they are both done with each other? Thank you all . yall are giving me the real and I am giving you all my true feelings. this isn't easy for me to reveal.
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Old 01-15-2017, 06:19 PM
 
Location: SW MO
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AutumnLeaves, I think what you can trust is that you want and need very much to be in love ands to be loved back. That distorts your perspective e and makes you very vulnerable. Love is wonderful but only when it's with the right person and is nothing to be rushed into. I'd step back if I were you.
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Old 01-15-2017, 07:23 PM
 
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AutumnLeaves, I think what you can trust is that you want and need very much to be in love ands to be loved back. That distorts your perspective e and makes you very vulnerable. Love is wonderful but only when it's with the right person and is nothing to be rushed into. I'd step back if I were you.
Thank you I am thinking bout stepping back
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Old 01-15-2017, 07:30 PM
 
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I love the term "constellation prize." I'm going to start using that one.
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