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Old 01-24-2017, 12:54 PM
 
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Well I met her online, I haven't gone online since we started talking. But today I was curious to see if she logged on recently and she did. She seems like she wants to do future stuff with me and everything but when do I say something about it?
Jesus Christ man, you already are coming off as way too clingy and needy. You had one date. ONE DATE. You shouldn't be cyber-stalking her profile and expect her to drop all communication or reply to your texts at a drop of a hat. Chill out and relax ASAP or you'll drive her away.
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Old 01-24-2017, 02:26 PM
 
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Jesus Christ man, you already are coming off as way too clingy and needy. You had one date. ONE DATE. You shouldn't be cyber-stalking her profile and expect her to drop all communication or reply to your texts at a drop of a hat. Chill out and relax ASAP or you'll drive her away.
100% this! Contact her sparingly. By that I mean contact her to offer a second date. Set the date, then get off the phone. If you stalk her, or blow up her phone, she's going to cancel on you.

Leave well enough alone, and when the time comes, go on the date.
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Old 01-25-2017, 09:41 AM
 
Location: Nashua, NH
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So we had a third date, and went back to her place and hung out made out had sex. I almost fell asleep over there and she was cool with it but I had to go home. So when j woke up I sent her a text that said morning with a kiss face and snap hatted a picture of me driving to work
She looks at the messages and doesn't respond she always responds.
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Old 01-25-2017, 09:49 AM
 
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So we had a third date, and went back to her place and hung out made out had sex. I almost fell asleep over there and she was cool with it but I had to go home. So when j woke up I sent her a text that said morning with a kiss face and snap hatted a picture of me driving to work
She looks at the messages and doesn't respond she always responds.
ZOMG, she didn't respond to a kissy faced text?????

Seriously, how is one supposed to respond to a photo of someone driving?

Relax.
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Old 01-25-2017, 09:56 AM
 
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Wow. It's almost as if this is the only dating option you have had for years and years and you are desperately clinging to it or forcing it.

Try to focus on other things in your life and give "dating" the proper priority...somewhere after your hobbies, work, and socializing with your actual friends.

Until you are in a relationship with someone and need to maintain and nurture it, you should not be giving so much head space to this.

Set another date and get on with the rest of your life.
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Old 01-25-2017, 09:59 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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So we had a third date, and went back to her place and hung out made out had sex. I almost fell asleep over there and she was cool with it but I had to go home. So when j woke up I sent her a text that said morning with a kiss face and snap hatted a picture of me driving to work
She looks at the messages and doesn't respond she always responds.
Third date? I thought it was the second?

Either way glad it went well mate.

Maybe she's just asleep?, Unless she was annoyed you didn't stay the night?..... Sorry I won't over think it
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Old 01-25-2017, 10:00 AM
 
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So we had a third date, and went back to her place and hung out made out had sex. I almost fell asleep over there and she was cool with it but I had to go home. So when j woke up I sent her a text that said morning with a kiss face and snap hatted a picture of me driving to work
She looks at the messages and doesn't respond she always responds.
She wasn't "satisfied"
or
literally, anything else.
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Old 01-25-2017, 11:12 AM
 
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What is her favorite fast food?
Lets just say KFC.
Get a bucket of chicken, couple blankets, couple lawn chairs, some drinks(adult if she will),
and head out to the country to look at the stars. Talk, eat, drink, take a back road and listen to
music.


Use your imagination, JJ!
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Old 01-26-2017, 09:43 AM
 
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How old is this person...geez!
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Old 01-26-2017, 10:11 AM
 
Location: Nashua, NH
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It's all good, he man I can't help the way I am. I can't hide my feelings. I don't date a lot. So when I do it's because I really find them attractive and personality is good.
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