Church social event (dating, girlfriend, girl, love)
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I'm 22, and my girlfriend is 20. We met in fall 2015 when she joined the college-age church group that I was already a member of. We didn't start dating until almost a year later. Anyway, we're having a social event at another member's house next Saturday (potluck dinner, games, and such). I was wondering what would happen if I choose not to attend, at the last minute, knowing that my GF will be there. This may be an opportunity for her to get to know other guys. I'm quite surprised she's still with me after 8 months, despite that I'm average-looking. A girl as attractive as her needs an attractive guy, and there are a number of them in the group who are single.
You already don't go everywhere together, correct? She could choose another guy at any time on any day. So you either trust her and believe that she loves you or you don't.
You already don't go everywhere together, correct? She could choose another guy at any time on any day. So you either trust her and believe that she loves you or you don't.
Absolutely! Why someone would choose to run scared is beyond me. But being old, perhaps I'm just cranky.
You already don't go everywhere together, correct? She could choose another guy at any time on any day. So you either trust her and believe that she loves you or you don't.
No, we don't. We both have our own lives. She goes to community college and works part time. I work full time in skilled trades. But yeah, she could choose someone else at any time, and I'm surprised we've been together this long. I guess Saturday's event will be a test to see if she's really into me or not. I won't know much until next Sunday at church, though.
No, we don't. We both have our own lives. She goes to community college and works part time. I work full time in skilled trades. But yeah, she could choose someone else at any time, and I'm surprised we've been together this long. I guess Saturday's event will be a test to see if she's really into me or not. I won't know much until next Sunday at church, though.
Testing her and having silent expectations of her. You are well on your way to ruining things, it will be all your fault, and it doesn't sound like you're really mature enough for a relationship. You're working your way to becoming a distant memory as the years pass.
I'm 22, and my girlfriend is 20. We met in fall 2015 when she joined the college-age church group that I was already a member of. We didn't start dating until almost a year later. Anyway, we're having a social event at another member's house next Saturday (potluck dinner, games, and such). I was wondering what would happen if I choose not to attend, at the last minute, knowing that my GF will be there. This may be an opportunity for her to get to know other guys. I'm quite surprised she's still with me after 8 months, despite that I'm average-looking. A girl as attractive as her needs an attractive guy, and there are a number of them in the group who are single.
WTF?! What are you talking about? Don't you like your gf? What makes you think that if you don't show up, she'd pair up with some other guy? That's not how it works. She's already passed the test; it's been almost a year, and she's still with you. That was the test.
Does she know you're trying to throw her away? Maybe you should talk to her about your insecurities.
You need professional help.
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You are well on your way to ruining things, it will be all your fault, and it doesn't sound like you're really mature enough for a relationship. You're working your way to becoming a distant memory as the years pass.
