Men: How Often Are You Approached? (kiss, flirts, conversation, serious)

[49ersfan27]

Originally Posted by Cyber Surfer

Once I dropped a ton of weight and started showing muscle tone, I've been approached FAR more in one year than my twenties.

Sad part, most of them are in relationships looking for an "out".

Why not just break up then? The woman will pick up if a man isn't interested in her and move on.

[LeaveWI]

Originally Posted by stevie60

At the gym they are waiting in line to approach me as I fight them off trying to do my workout. I am certain it is because I am such an incredible physical specimen of mankind. They seem to wait for me outside and follow me around the gym. It seems there is always some really young girl doing bent over rows right in front of me. I can't tell you how many wardrobe accidents I see right next to me.

It really is getting to be a pain in the rear with all this attention. I wouldn't mind if they were close to my age but all the 20's are just all over me!

Your kidding right?

Exactly I thought this was City-Data- not Fantasy Island

[guy1]

Originally Posted by taimaishu

When I use to go clubbing:
* Girls would randomly grab my hand
* I would be leaning on a table and a girl would just grab my ass. Yeah, I know rude!
* Tons of girls doing the, doing anything they can to get close to you and either stare, or dance next to you.
* A few would just walk up to me, stare and if I don't do anything, they would walk away. lol
* Walk up to me with their friends, giggle for some reason.

Never do they ever ask to dance. They just do everything else to make it easier for you to ask them to dance.

Thanks for your reply.

How many times would women approach you in a night, on average?

[gazzaa2]

Originally Posted by taimaishu

When I use to go clubbing:
* Tons of girls doing the, doing anything they can to get close to you and either stare, or dance next to you.
* A few would just walk up to me, stare and if I don't do anything, they would walk away. lol
* Walk up to me with their friends, giggle for some reason.

Never do they ever ask to dance. They just do everything else to make it easier for you to ask them to dance.

This is what I find. They make it so that you still have to do the work if you want to try and get them and they still have the power of being able to reject you as a result. To me that's not an approach.

[guy1]

Originally Posted by gazzaa2

This is what I find. They make it so that you still have to do the work if you want to try and get them and they still have the power of being able to reject you as a result. To me that's not an approach.

No, those are approaches.

[guy1]

Some women will play the "plausible deniability" game.

For instance, one girl bumped into me repeatedly: she walked backwards into me 3X from about 6 feet away. I didn't react and she finally left.

She never turned to face me, never said anything, but still tried over and over to initiate.

Very pretty lady, 6 feet tall, thin blonde, etc.

[Hand McLovin]

Originally Posted by guy1

Very pretty lady, 6 feet tall, thin blonde, etc.

She came a knockin and you didnt answer?

[atsizat]

Never!!!!!!

[Serious Conversation]

Maybe twice a month? Not that much.

[Bearsdad]

Hmmm.if and thats a big if, i go to a bar or niteclub i may not get approached at all or i might get approached several times. I never have anyone accidentally fall into me or touch me. Sounds like a lot of BS. More than likely i get the old "oh my god how tall are you" or a comment avout being the tallest guy in the place. A lot of times i get the i love your voice it is deep and sexy.
Summertime if i hang out at the Purple Moose in OC Md, that place would be the exception and i get approached multiple times a night. It all depends on circumstances and how approachable you are i think. My women friends often send women my way at the lake in the summer. I don't think there is a specific number for me.