What does it feel like to have a women attracted to you? (2014, sex)
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It's been extremely rare in my case but having a woman be attracted to me is kind of a feeling that makes you say "I've done nothing to get your attention but you think I'm awesome anyway?" Having someone like you just because you are you, with your flaws and insecurities, is just the greatest feeling ever. Just too damn bad I couldn't return that feeling in my cases.
This perfectly describes my experience. In most cases I don't reciprocate because I'm not interested in the woman for any number of reasons.
Way back in the day, when I was in my 20's, I used to work with this guy. He had rather severe acne scars, and he was a little bit on the short side.
But he was nice, he was smart, he was funny, he was a sharp dresser, and he had confidence in himself. If he had asked, I would've gone out with him. But I wasn't even on his radar. lol
Seems like a great feeling when a women is really into you.. I've never experienced that but I'd imagine it's great.
Maybe one day
Aim lower.
Don't go for hotties. Go for women below your level even if that means they have only one eye or two noses or a big scar. They can still be attractive but aren't aware of it. There is somebody out there for ANYBODY.
Seems like a great feeling when a women is really into you.. I've never experienced that but I'd imagine it's great.
Maybe one day
Let's see, for me.
When I'm attracted to the woman outright
I'd feel thrilled and in disbelief as well. I'll have a large combination of feelings, I'd often implode with excitement.
Now, when I'm not attracted to the woman outright...
I feel a little more hesitant...(until attraction develops)
In the end, I think I prefer the woman I'm not immediately attracted to as long as she is very kind hearted. if I was attracted to her outright, there'd be the infatuation factor, and I don't think I like being infatuated. Infatuation kills love. I can more easily love (unselfishly) the woman who I find more reasonable. Infatuation makes me want something from her.
I know it does not make sense, but I am a screwed up individual
once you change your negative attitude about your height and embrace the other things about you that are awesome, then other women will sense this about you - and they'll embrace it too. That's when you'll experience what it feels like to have a woman attracted to you.
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Originally Posted by jbt1980
just stop it
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Originally Posted by rbccl
agreed.
TOS !!!
I actually like this thread. I see what you are getting at and you seem like a really positive person, but please give it a rest.
I have the same mentality, embrace your positive attributes. But there are some things we can't mention here.
I'd feel thrilled and in disbelief as well. I'll have a large combination of feelings, I'd often implode with excitement.
Now, when I'm not attracted to the woman outright...
I feel a little more hesitant...(until attraction develops)
In the end, I think I prefer the woman I'm not immediately attracted to as long as she is very kind hearted. if I was attracted to her outright, there'd be the infatuation factor, and I don't think I like being infatuated. Infatuation kills love. I can more easily love (unselfishly) the woman who I find more reasonable. Infatuation makes me want something from her.
I know it does not make sense, but I am a screwed up individual
Don't go for hotties. Go for women below your level even if that means they have only one eye or two noses or a big scar. They can still be attractive but aren't aware of it. There is somebody out there for ANYBODY.
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