What Turns A Guy Off With A Woman ? (feelings, relations, London)

[JimBrown333]

Originally Posted by 49ersfan27

In my 30s I might change my mind but she has to be pretty amazing for me to consider it. But right now, it's not happening.

As I have just entered my 30's (will be 31 in December). I am even more set in my ways than in my 20's (where I might have entertained the idea of dating a woman with a kid). as I have gotten to understand myself more, I know that kids, marriage and co-habitation are not for me....Ever.

[JimBrown333]

Originally Posted by mlj1225

SO many deal breakers and turnoffs.... makes one wonder if there is anything some people actually DO like.

For me some of my turn on's would be.

Manners, Polite, Good Conversationalist, Showing Genuine Interest in me, Pale Skin, Light Eyes, pretty smile, Dark Hair, Freckles, Nice booty.

[JimBrown333]

Originally Posted by Auraliea

I'm on the fence.

A lot of people do a lot of things that other people DO NOT want to deal with.

That's just reality.

Very Good Point, I am sure i do things many woman don't want to deal with, and that is fine with me.

[Trumptard]

- expects a man to pay her way
- wants equal benefits but doesn't want equal responsibility
- waits for men to do every thing
- cellulite
- skinny thighs
- small breasts
- flat bottom
- pasty skin
- thin lips

[M3 Mitch]

As for me - Baby Rabies is the best way for a gal to be totally unappealing to me. Although now at 60 this issue would probably not come up anyway.

[JimBrown333]

Originally Posted by Trumptard

- expects a man to pay her way
- wants equal benefits but doesn't want equal responsibility
- waits for men to do every thing
- cellulite
- skinny thighs
- small breasts
- flat bottom
- pasty skin
- thin lips

I am with you on the thighs, So many girls are obsessed with having a thigh gap, I prefer a girl whose thighs touch. and I agree again no flat booty's, I need something to grab.

[49ersfan27]

Originally Posted by JimBrown333

As I have just entered my 30's (will be 31 in December). I am even more set in my ways than in my 20's (where I might have entertained the idea of dating a woman with a kid). as I have gotten to understand myself more, I know that kids, marriage and co-habitation are not for me....Ever.

I had a change of heart. I won't change my mind about the no kid preference even when I hit my 30s. Yes, it will limit my options but I don't care. I don't want kids of mine so why date a woman who has them? No thanks.

[scribbles76]

Originally Posted by Londoncowboy30

It seems many would rather find reasons/excuses not to something than to do so

I'll cop to that. Any reason I can think of not to date is a good one in my book. I dread the thought of selling out and becoming one of 'them.' Next thing you know I'd be wearing clogs and inviting GELFs around for dinner.

'A keyring with a C on it. Thank you with a capital R.'

[Londoncowboy30]

Originally Posted by scribbles76

I'll cop to that. Any reason I can think of not to date is a good one in my book. I dread the thought of selling out and becoming one of 'them.' Next thing you know I'd be wearing clogs and inviting GELFs around for dinner.

'A keyring with a C on it. Thank you with a capital R.'

Ha no you've got a bit of humour about ya mate so you'll never cross * that * bridge and keep your sanity in that respect

[49ersfan27]

Originally Posted by Londoncowboy30

It's sad but very true!

It seems many would rather find reasons/excuses not to something than to do so

I think it depends on the reason and the excuse. I've made many excuses to not date but the reasons were legitimate.