Male vs. Female Fantasizing (men, celebrities, personality, sexy)
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I fantasize about a man who isn't infantile and doesn't try to apply what he has learned from watching countless hours of porn into what he believes a 'relationship' constitutes. A man who understands his emotions and is capable of expressing them on a regular basis.
A man who is honest, happy, attractive, emotionally stable, and doesn't take himself too seriously. A man with a sense of direction in his life, goals and objectives, and the wherewithal to achieve them.
Clearly, this is destined to remain a fantasy. I may as well hope to find a unicorn in my backyard.
I suspect that when men fantasize about a woman it involves "The act" sooner rather than later. For women, about what do you fantasize? Not your husband but if you know a man well and find him attractive?
I made a rule for myself that I'm not allowed to fantasize about anyone I know in real life (except Mr.Mathlete, obvi). It would just be too weird, and I just know it would be written all over my face that I pictured banging said person.
She's basically telling you that you have to jump through a lot of hoops to get into her pants either fantasy or reality. In other words, if the stars don't line up then it ain't hapnin.
I suspect that when men fantasize about a woman it involves "The act" sooner rather than later. For women, about what do you fantasize? Not your husband but if you know a man well and find him attractive?
I pretty much only fantasize about celebrities. Yes, it involves sex but not just sex. There's romance too. I don't fantasize about men who I know in real life.
I like to fantasize about being a space pirate (or smuggler) and running around the galaxy in my own space ship being more of a slightly unprincipled character with a heart of gold (and usually my ship's name is, "The Heart of Gold" and yes, I stole that from Douglas Adams). Sometimes I fantasize about being a renegade time traveler too (also with my own ship).
As far as fantasizing about men, for some reason, it's not something I do when I am in a relationship. I might think about what my boyfriend and I will do later, but I wouldn't call that fantasizing since it's firmly rooted in reality. I guess I don't need to fantasize about things that will happen in real life. When I am not in a relationship, all bets are off and I have some really... um, interesting, fantasies. And they involve lots and lots of the "deed" as people say (and usually space travel or time travel too). And also adventure and romance. But not zero gravity stuff. I just can't figure out the physics of it and how it would work in zero G.
She's basically telling you that you have to jump through a lot of hoops to get into her pants either fantasy or reality. In other words, if the stars don't line up then it ain't hapnin.
Best way to be. Lol
But in all seriousness, I understand/share her sentiments. I think there are a lot of things in life you have no choice but to settle for, but love shouldn't be one of them.
Yes....THIS...in MY fantasies I'm thinking about what I'LL be wearing?! Uhm no....I'm thinking about what HE looks like and what we're DOING.
Guys need to get out of their own heads if that's possible. Panty color...very important to my pleasure
Right, it's more like what does he say and do to make my knees weak? How does he make me feel? Note that "what are you wearing?" is not something that women generally ask to get things moving.
She's basically telling you that you have to jump through a lot of hoops to get into her pants either fantasy or reality. In other words, if the stars don't line up then it ain't hapnin.
It's not snarky or sad, and it's not about jumping through hoops either as far as I'm concerned. The features I described in my fantasy man are ones I bring to the table, and I didn't 'jump through hoops' to get there. Do you really think the descriptives I used for my fantasy man were extreme? What is wrong with that picture, hmm? I don't think anything I wrote was all that demanding. Or should I instead aspire to find a man who is immature, a porn addict, with no relationship, life, or coping skills?
The fact is, most men I encounter online have little to offer but are holding out for Scarlet Johansen with a bleached anus, waxed and tucked vajayjay, perfect grapefruit knockers, a Kardashian ass with a wasp waist, a subservient nympho who's dripping in anticipation of his sweaty stubby sausage fingers all over her like white on rice. She should be smart, but not smarter than him. She shouldn't speak until spoken to, and when he wants her opinion he will let her know what her opinion will be. She should accept him just as he is with all his character, personality, and physical flaws, but he won't put up with even chipped nail polish. Hence, my 'fantasy' man. You can take it or leave it, I'd rather be alone than with a person I'm not compatible with and who fails to value my attributes and achievements. I'd prefer to be with someone who I can respect and admire and who inspires me to be the best version of me. With or without a waxed vadge.
Eh, I think this poster is just trying to collect female fantasies for his spank bank because his wife won't sleep with him anymore. God bless 'im
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