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Certain types of men seem to cling to the idea that women are "upset" when they disagree with them or express a negative opinion on something. Pretty funny.
I fantasize about dressed up sex and role play... Stuff like pretend office sex in business suits and cheerleader sex. I'd dress up a wife in real schoolgirl attire too, and be her teacher...
It's not snarky or sad, and it's not about jumping through hoops either as far as I'm concerned. The features I described in my fantasy man are ones I bring to the table, and I didn't 'jump through hoops' to get there. Do you really think the descriptives I used for my fantasy man were extreme? What is wrong with that picture, hmm? I don't think anything I wrote was all that demanding. Or should I instead aspire to find a man who is immature, a porn addict, with no relationship, life, or coping skills?
The fact is, most men I encounter online have little to offer but are holding out for Scarlet Johansen with a bleached anus, waxed and tucked vajayjay, perfect grapefruit knockers, a Kardashian ass with a wasp waist, a subservient nympho who's dripping in anticipation of his sweaty stubby sausage fingers all over her like white on rice. She should be smart, but not smarter than him. She shouldn't speak until spoken to, and when he wants her opinion he will let her know what her opinion will be. She should accept him just as he is with all his character, personality, and physical flaws, but he won't put up with even chipped nail polish. Hence, my 'fantasy' man. You can take it or leave it, I'd rather be alone than with a person I'm not compatible with and who fails to value my attributes and achievements. I'd prefer to be with someone who I can respect and admire and who inspires me to be the best version of me. With or without a waxed vadge.
Ai yi yi! We ARE talking about fantasy...so if a guy is talking 'fantasy' I would imagine he's picturing the perfect woman to HIM. It's OK if he's fantasizing about grapefruit breasts, Kardashian butts and wasp waists. Because...it's FANTASY.
Now...if he can't differentiate between fantasy and reality...that's a whole other set of problems.
I fantasize about past awesome sex experiences.
And I fantasize about Sam Elliot
And the perfect male form (to me) is a long and lanky guy, shirtless, dark hair, with a kind of hairy chest to goes down to the stomach and beyond...hidden by his jeans. That. Is. Hot.
I fantasize about dressed up sex and role play... Stuff like pretend office sex in business suits and cheerleader sex. I'd dress up a wife in real schoolgirl attire too, and be her teacher...
Well if we don't see the OP for a while at least we can guess what he's dreaming about
I fantasize about a man who isn't infantile and doesn't try to apply what he has learned from watching countless hours of porn into what he believes a 'relationship' constitutes. A man who understands his emotions and is capable of expressing them on a regular basis.
A man who is honest, happy, attractive, emotionally stable, and doesn't take himself too seriously. A man with a sense of direction in his life, goals and objectives, and the wherewithal to achieve them.
Clearly, this is destined to remain a fantasy. I may as well hope to find a unicorn in my backyard.
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Originally Posted by homina12
Your fantasy makes perfect sense. It's not up to me whether your fantasy makes sense, but when you post it on a public forum, then people will comment. I'm a people.
The part that is either sad or snarky is what I bolded. Precisely because those men don't seem rare to me, not significantly more rare than similar women, at least. You're aiming at what seems to be a commonly existing target. That you don't see the target, or that your aim is poor, might not be the target's fault.
Or is it axiomatic that men mostly suck?
The kind of lover or how much porn a man has consumed is not usually tattooed on his face so it can be difficult to aim at something that's invisible until you are already in bed with them. The other stuff sure...I guess that's reason to not wait too long to find out!
Ai yi yi! We ARE talking about fantasy...so if a guy is talking 'fantasy' I would imagine he's picturing the perfect woman to HIM. It's OK if he's fantasizing about grapefruit breasts, Kardashian butts and wasp waists. Because...it's FANTASY.
Now...if he can't differentiate between fantasy and reality...that's a whole other set of problems.
I fantasize about past awesome sex experiences.
And I fantasize about Sam Elliot
And the perfect male form (to me) is a long and lanky guy, shirtless, dark hair, with a kind of hairy chest to goes down to the stomach and beyond...hidden by his jeans. That. Is. Hot.
I fantasize about dressed up sex and role play... Stuff like pretend office sex in business suits and cheerleader sex. I'd dress up a wife in real schoolgirl attire too, and be her teacher...
*shudder*
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