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Oh me too! I could never face someone in real life that I had a sexy fantasy about.
For me, it's not really a matter of having to face them. I mean, I go out of my way to meet these celebrities who I fantasize about in person. lol Normal men just don't inspire me to fantasize about them in that way.
I'm the same way, that would feel weird to me. If I'm going to fantasize abt another man, it's usually a rock star from the 70's or 80's.
I also rarely fantasize abt 'the act' itself, more about leading up to it, etc. I'm sure the answers would be as varied as the women doing the fantasizing. It's different for everyone.
Yeah, that "fourth wall" is what allows it to be harmless fun, with virtually no chance of it ever actually happening.
I fantasize about a man who isn't infantile and doesn't try to apply what he has learned from watching countless hours of porn into what he believes a 'relationship' constitutes. A man who understands his emotions and is capable of expressing them on a regular basis.
A man who is honest, happy, attractive, emotionally stable, and doesn't take himself too seriously. A man with a sense of direction in his life, goals and objectives, and the wherewithal to achieve them.
Clearly, this is destined to remain a fantasy. I may as well hope to find a unicorn in my backyard.
Your fantasy makes perfect sense. It's not up to me whether your fantasy makes sense, but when you post it on a public forum, then people will comment. I'm a people.
The part that is either sad or snarky is what I bolded. Precisely because those men don't seem rare to me, not significantly more rare than similar women, at least. You're aiming at what seems to be a commonly existing target. That you don't see the target, or that your aim is poor, might not be the target's fault.
I suspect that when men fantasize about a woman it involves "The act" sooner rather than later. For women, about what do you fantasize? Not your husband but if you know a man well and find him attractive?
There is never a need to fantasize when one has a *Real Man* to share their life and home.
Your problem is likely where you're looking; online.
The other issue is you're looking for a high quality man and finding yourself upset that he has standards.
Nice way to insinuate she's upset she doesn't meet the standards, when what she posted was that she hasn't found one that meets HERS.
But, some progress, at least you didn't tell her she is most likely greatly overweight.
You're pulling that from where exactly? I didn't mention what kind of sex I'm into because it's not an open discussion topic for me. But think what you will, it matters not to me.
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Originally Posted by RedWings18
Your problem is likely where you're looking; online.
POF: 95% trash, both sexes
Tinder: lots of trash / hookup only
Bumble: Juries still out, but it's promising
The other issue is you're looking for a high quality man and finding yourself upset that he has standards, I assume you're being hyperbolic in your subsequent post about his desires. The bottom line a high quality man is going to have high expectations for a LTR.
If you read my subsequent post then you'd realize that I was referring to the male dregs who are holding out for that crafted female perfection, not the top shelf males.
You're pulling that from where exactly? I didn't mention what kind of sex I'm into because it's not an open discussion topic for me. But think what you will, it matters not to me.
If you read my subsequent post then you'd realize that I was referring to the male dregs who are holding out for that crafted female perfection, not the top shelf males.
Your subsequent post clearly stated: the men you find online.
But fair enough. If some dweeb is holding out for a Kardashian, then it is his loss when attainable women come through.
I fantasize about a man who isn't infantile and doesn't try to apply what he has learned from watching countless hours of porn into what he believes a 'relationship' constitutes. A man who understands his emotions and is capable of expressing them on a regular basis.
A man who is honest, happy, attractive, emotionally stable, and doesn't take himself too seriously.A man with a sense of direction in his life, goals and objectives, and the wherewithal to achieve them.
Clearly, this is destined to remain a fantasy. I may as well hope to find a unicorn in my backyard.
Minus the attractive part, Im your Unicorn
Well, a donkey with a corn cob on his head. Lol
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