how often a guy should call after 3 dates (calling, interested, people)

[QQ2345]

How often to contact after 3 great dates if you feel you both are interested in each other according to your experience or what you have heard?

[Sassybluesy]

Gosh...it's been so long since I've dated.


Seems like to me, every other day would be fine, if both people are REALLY into each other. But probably the best course of action is to say something like "I'll call you tomorrow, OK?" and go from there?

[Londoncowboy30]

What I find best on the whole is to match HER level of contact and tempo that way it won't come across as too much or not enough and you really can't go wrong

However after 3 " great dates " and both are clearly interested I would be a complete idiot to not be as forthcoming and slow down

[QQ2345]

Could you explain a little bit about match her level?
Like you would not call her or text her first?

[SkylarkPhotoBooth]

Call? As in voice calls? People still do that?

I would text as often as feels comfortable. Don't keep texting if she doesn't respond, though.

[Londoncowboy30]

Originally Posted by QQ2345

Could you explain a little bit about match her level?
Like you would not call her or text her first?

Sure no problem mate

Yes at the start I'm again very forthcoming in calling/texting/smoke signals lol as that what shows my interest and my eagerness to see her, then after a little while of regular communication plus 3 dates I'll KNOW her schedule and when and where she can speak ( work/gym/when she's at home etc ) and will go from there

With level I mean match her level of involvement more than anything as yes again everyone has a schedule so there will be times she can't speak and the blatantly obvious that not everyone is as chatty as others

With that " who should text first " .....Forget it! as it's game playing, childish bollox! ....if you want to speak to her DO IT! but just be mindful of what I've said above as it's just good old fashioned common sense and things should run smoothly and there shouldn't really be a breakdown of contact/communication.

[elnina]

Let me see what the generally approved schedule says ....

[Raptor76]

If I have been on three dates with someone, more than likely there will be more dates after that, and I am keeping in touch with them every day.

[MrRational]

Originally Posted by QQ2345

How often to contact after 3 great dates if you feel you both are interested in each other ...?

Stop half stepping.
Either you ARE interested and have acted upon that... or you haven't.

After 3 dates he shouldn't necessarily have a toothbrush and razor there...
but the thought should have crossed both your minds.

[moneymkt]

Some method of contact each day which is text only today and call tomorrow. As long as you both remain in contact with each other on a daily whether it's text or phone.