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Old 06-15-2017, 04:01 PM
 
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I have a huge crush on someone and I'm not sure if the feeling is mutual so here's my story.
My son needed a haircut so I found a barber shop in my area since I'm new in town. The barber has
cut my sons hair for a few months and on one particular day my son says" mom you know my barber, well he asked me who's that lady that comes into the shop with you" my son says that's my mom". His barber then couldn't believe it and told my son how beautiful I was and asked him who did we move here with etc. my son says just me and my mother.

I really don't have to come into the shop with my son but I only come in there to see him, and whenever I decide to come in he always looks happy to see me, and blushes a bit. One time I came in he looked at me smiled, asked me how I was doing while mirroring my hand gestures and did the same thing as I was leaving. I don't quite know how to approach him especially in a business setting but he's absolutely gorgeous and I don't know what to do. Any suggestions? Thank you!
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Old 06-15-2017, 04:03 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Have you talked to him at all beyond the hellos and goodbyes??

That would be my suggestion.
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Old 06-15-2017, 04:04 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Casually chat with him during the hair cut and mention there is no Mr. Sweetginger and you are single
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Old 06-15-2017, 04:07 PM
 
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One time I was in the store next to the shop and he was already in there. I noticed him before he saw me but didn't say anything. He was checking me out then said " hey how are you" how's my buddy which is my son.. Other than that nothing. He stares each time I come into the shop.
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Old 06-15-2017, 04:08 PM
 
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I'm very shy but I guess I could try that.
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Old 06-15-2017, 04:09 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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You need to find out if he's married/spoken for.

Other than that, follow his lead, unless you're really good at discreetly flirting in front of your kid.

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Old 06-15-2017, 04:11 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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I'm very shy but I guess I could try that.
Smile at him and ask him if he is so nice to all of his customers ... and see what happens.
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Old 06-15-2017, 04:17 PM
 
Location: Planet Earth, USA
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Flirt with him and get free haircuts for your boy
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Old 06-15-2017, 04:35 PM
 
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Tell him you are new in town and ask him to recommend some family restaurants or places for children to play, etc. And yes, do try to find out if he is married and/or has children before either of you start flirting.
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Old 06-15-2017, 05:55 PM
 
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He might cut and style women's hair as well. Maybe book and in home appt.
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