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You can't live your life in fear of something that might happen. If it does, it does. You will be sad, and eventually get over it. That's just life. In the meantime, why worry about something you have zero control over...
This is just so right on. This is exactly why I live mostly day by day.
You need to try to get over this. My husband and I have both been cheated on in the past, in fact I was a few times. But we do not let this affect our marriage. We dealt with those issues before we met. We trust each other. Don't monitor each other, travel separately when we want, etc. You can't live your life in fear of something that might happen. If it does, it does. You will be sad, and eventually get over it. That's just life. In the meantime, why worry about something you have zero control over. The only control you have over this is to choose wisely in a partner. And it sounds like you have chosen a nice person. So just let things progress. No one knows what the future can hold. But just know whatever happens, you will be ok.
You are so right. And it's something that I need to work on. It's a fear is all it is. One that I need to overcome because if not it will eat me alive.
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