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Old 07-12-2017, 04:49 PM
 
Location: Montana
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I couldn't find a Dating forum, this is the next closest forum. So I have a profile on a hookup site similar to Tinder and POF. On POF/Tinder I get maybe 1-2 messages a month. On this hookup site I am getting 2-3 messages a day and tons of chat requests. Just now was logged in for about 30-60 minutes and had 5 different chat requests. Thought I would share the lines I am getting just for laughs. This is through a chat/instant message feature on the site. These are lines coming from women since I am a man.

You are hotter then a sunburn.
Do you have a napkin? Because you are making me wet.
Looking at your pix I know why they call it a beaver. Because I am dying for some wood!
TALK TO ME
Are you a rainstorm? Because I am soaked.
I hear you have been a bad boy. Now go to MY room!
You make me melt like an ice cream cone in the summer sun.
I suffer from amnesia, have we ever had sex before? No? Well why don't we?
Give me your name so I know what to scream tonight.
You look like a hard worker, I have an opening you can fill.
Are you a candle, because I want to blow you.
If I told you I work for UPS, would you let me handle your package?

The pictures that I have posted on both sites are the same including my profile pic here, I don't put nude pictures of myself online. So my question is why am I literally getting 10 times the attention on a hookup site compared to a dating site where I state I am looking for a relationship? This hookup site was an experiment for me and an eye opening one at that. Not judging here, just genuinely curious. I like the attention, who wouldn't? Just baffling to me why I'm getting it on a hookup site and little to none on a relationship site. Men are visual, we like pictures. Women seem to be much more into fantasy sexting and chats then men are. Personally I find that sexting is a waste of time, I would rather go out on dates and meet people.
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Old 07-12-2017, 04:51 PM
 
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This is serious question?

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Old 07-12-2017, 04:52 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Hook up sites like that are driven by bots/fake users. It's that simple.
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Old 07-12-2017, 05:19 PM
 
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Pof is a hook up site. I don't care what your mom says.
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Old 07-12-2017, 05:22 PM
 
Location: The Jar
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Originally Posted by LLCNYC View Post
This is serious question?

About as serious as his profile picture!

I'm thinking profile picture is that of a person someone (namely the person who posted this thread) is ticked off at....

The more sites they post his goofy picture on, with stupid stuff attached, the more chance of someone getting in touch with the real guy and humiliating him.

Just a theory!
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Old 07-12-2017, 05:44 PM
 
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So what're you wasting your time over here for? You don't like hookups?
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Old 07-12-2017, 05:49 PM
 
Location: Central IL
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Girls just wanna have fun?
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Old 07-12-2017, 05:52 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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1. Hookup sites are loaded with bots.

2. For those that actually AREN'T bots, is it really so surprising that people put less thought into casual hookups than things they see as a potential relationship with an actual future? Nope. Not at all. People are often less discerning about things that are, by design, very, very short-term.
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Old 07-12-2017, 05:53 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Better get tested for std's.
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Old 07-12-2017, 06:00 PM
 
Location: The Jar
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Better get tested for std's.
Especially, a computer virus! Via the Bots! LOL!
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