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I am in a big city for work for 5 more weeks and am using dating apps. Am I going to have better luck saying I am here temporarily for work or just not saying anything?
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Originally Posted by Berteau
For people open to those things. Which is how many girls???
What does it matter? If its 10%, it's 10%. If less, its less. You only need one a night, generally.
Since it only makes sense to try to talk to and meet women that are open to it, its the only way to go.
I mean, unless you're ok with pretending you're interested in really dating while trying to get laid while on a trip which is A) really damn scuzzy, and B) unnecessary since there are plenty of people up for a fun night and are honest about it
"I'm visiting Flagstaff for the weekend and would like to meet someone for a tour of breweries, live music venues, and off the beaten path cool spots"
Things like that work just fine for people open to those things.
The above post looks like a good idea. You should try it OP. You'd be surprised at how many women may be just looking to do a few activities, something different, no pressure or strings attached.
I was on an overseas trip for 2 weeks last month. I published a similar ad on the local dating site and met up with 2 women (i'm a gay woman btw). I always met in public places, did not press for anything hookup-like, we hung out and I had a great time. I actually went to one of the women's home, met her family and had dinner with them lol. I still message with both of them, and now have networked with a couple of people I can hang out with the next time I visit. I'm no longer a stranger there. Good luck OP
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