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I wonder what women would think if I, or guys in general listed a criteria for weight to height ratio of women I'm interested in.
Like "I'm 6'4 230 lbs, and prefer women with smaller midsection and larger chest area than myself"
They do. I generally ignored them because I always wondered if I really would be good enough. Usually guys code it by saying, “must be athletic and active.” I’m a healthy weight for my height and I work out every day, but am I “athletic?” I really don’t think so. I mean, I can’t run a marathon or anything. 5k, yeah, but that’s it. Is that good enough for this guy or is he looking for a triathlete? So I just thought, “meh, next!” and would go to the next profile.
I suppose guys could do the same (ignore the profiles with body requirement references).
I wonder what women would think if I, or guys in general listed a criteria for weight to height ratio of women I'm interested in.
Like "I'm 6'4 230 lbs, and prefer women with smaller midsection and larger chest area than myself"
As a woman, i think that would be great. I would much rather a guy let me know what he wants, and if i don't fit the bill, then i will move along to the next guy. Would save both parties a lot of time if people clearly communicated what they wanted.
I wonder what women would think if I, or guys in general listed a criteria for weight to height ratio of women I'm interested in.
Like "I'm 6'4 230 lbs, and prefer women with smaller midsection and larger chest area than myself"
Well, I did see profiles that got pretty specific about weight requirements and HWP or even references to WHR. "I'm 200 lbs, and won't date a woman near, at or over my weight."
Alrighty then. Even at my smallest, I was 180ish lbs. Next...
As a woman, i think that would be great. I would much rather a guy let me know what he wants, and if i don't fit the bill, then i will move along to the next guy. Would save both parties a lot of time if people clearly communicated what they wanted.
Yep. No big deal. I even saw profiles that stated a preference for petite women, and being tall, that certainly wasn't me.
Interestingly, my ex before I met my husband was pretty selective and actually revised his profile a few times because a lot of responses said he seemed "too picky." In any case, he did list his preference for petite women because he'd never dated a woman over 5'5" and a size 6. We were highly matched and seemed to have a lot in common, but when I saw that I decided against sending a message. But he saw that I looked at his profile and sent me a rather long message and seemed absolutely smitten.
I weighed more than him by 12ish lbs, and an inch shorter vs. the 5+ he was accustomed to.
If you're short then you're undesirable to women period. Not being mean but it's a fact. You have to understand that short men are as desirable to women as fat women are desirable to you (meaning: not at all). The repulsion to short men is quite strong in women, even as an ugly fat girl I'd rather date an ugly fat guy who's super tall than a handsome short guy. So don't go on tinder because there are attractive girls there who can date handsome tall guys and would reject you for your height alone. Try real life where you can meet people with common interests so people will be less shallow and maybe meet a super short girl who would be okay with your height.
If you're short then you're undesirable to women period. Not being mean but it's a fact. You have to understand that short men are as desirable to women as fat women are desirable to you (meaning: not at all). The repulsion to short men is quite strong in women, even as an ugly fat girl I'd rather date an ugly fat guy who's super tall than a handsome short guy. So don't go on tinder because there are attractive girls there who can date handsome tall guys and would reject you for your height alone. Try real life where you can meet people with common interests so people will be less shallow and maybe meet a super short girl who would be okay with your height.
If you're short then you're undesirable to women period. Not being mean but it's a fact. You have to understand that short men are as desirable to women as fat women are desirable to you (meaning: not at all). The repulsion to short men is quite strong in women, even as an ugly fat girl I'd rather date an ugly fat guy who's super tall than a handsome short guy. So don't go on tinder because there are attractive girls there who can date handsome tall guys and would reject you for your height alone. Try real life where you can meet people with common interests so people will be less shallow and maybe meet a super short girl who would be okay with your height.
Okay Dude, LOl.
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