Whats with telling men who haven't had success to make money ? (women, older)

[Tear it down]

This seems like a sure way to get a golddigger and i would always be wondering if she is with me for money and I couldn't accept that.

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[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by Tear it down

This seems like a sure way to get a golddigger and i would always be wondering if she is with me for money and I couldn't accept that.

Yep, being broke is a perfect way to keep those gold-diggers at bay.

You also don't have to deal with annoying cold calls from stockbrokers. There's a ton of advantages!

[pvande55]

I heard a guy with an older car saying it's "gold digger repellant."

[Star10101]

Originally Posted by Tear it down

This seems like a sure way to get a golddigger and i would always be wondering if she is with me for money and I couldn't accept that.

Well, yes. You’ve sort of answered your own question.

If I was a bloke, and I was mega-rich, I wouldn’t be flashing my money around - for fear of attracting gold-digging women.

Imagine someone liking you, just for what’s in your bank account, and wanting you to provide them with an easy life?

[BellevueNative]

I make a very good living, support myself, etc. and expect a man I'm with to be able to do the same. I'm no gold digger, but I'm also no sugar mama.

[funymann]

I laugh at the gold digger videos on YouTube

There is one where the guy pulls a gold shovel out of his Lamborghini and hands it to her. Lol

[Sydney123]

Why does it seem like it's always the broke guys who worry about gold diggers? LMAO!
I've yet to see a guy on here post about being taken for a ride by a "gold digger", lots of cautionary advice about these creatures, but no real experience with them mentioned.

[oh-eve]

Originally Posted by Tear it down

This seems like a sure way to get a golddigger and i would always be wondering if she is with me for money and I couldn't accept that.

Yes, that would suck for you. So stay broke and you won't have that problem.

[Chowhound]

You don't even really have to make a display of it. Just don't dress up and don't be flashy. Not a big deal really. Looking to make a mountain out of a mole hill here.

[Chowhound]

Originally Posted by Sydney123

Why does it seem like it's always the broke guys who worry about gold diggers? LMAO!
I've yet to see a guy on here post about being taken for a ride by a "gold digger", lots of cautionary advice about these creatures, but no real experience with them mentioned.

Yeah, I've been saying that for years on this forum. My whole adult life I only came across one woman that I could legitimately say was a gold digger. My experience has been that most women are willing to chip in and split the bill or whatever. I'm a tad old school and tend to pick up the check until we become an item and then it's more evenly split, but whatever. I've always made more money than the women I've been with so I didn't mind picking a bit more of the slack.

Some of these guys act like every woman they know is some gold digging ho and most of those guys have very limited experience with woman. LOL, funny stuff.