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What makes people who have one-nighters and flings clasess and lacking morals, in your mind?
Hmmm I thought there was no such thing as a dumb question, but I learn something new daily.
Well "one nighters" are NOT classy, sophisticated nor stylish! and regarding morals which are the standards someone holds themsleves accountable, some people have higher standards & values, thank goodness, therefore people LACKING morals would be OK with the flings.
Now do you understand?
It's Two different Ballgames one is the Major League (Classy people with high morals not doing one night stands) and the other is a pick up game of stickball (low or no moral hornballs getting a thrill for a night with not much care as to how it affects them, the people around them, nor society)
I don't play stickball so the game doesn't affect me personally & there are many like me, & many not.
Hmmm I thought there was no such thing as a dumb question, but I learn something new daily.
Well "one nighters" are NOT classy, sophisticated nor stylish! and regarding morals which are the standards someone holds themsleves accountable, some people have higher standards & values, thank goodness, therefore people LACKING morals would be OK with the flings.
Now do you understand?
It's Two different Ballgames one is the Major League (Classy people with high morals not doing one night stands) and the other is a pick up game of stickball (low or no moral hornballs getting a thrill for a night with not much care as to how it affects them, the people around them, nor society)
I don't play stickball so the game doesn't affect me personally & there are many like me, & many not.
Give me a break with this.
Just because someone has a fling or one nighter, doesn't mean they lack morals or standards.
Just say you have a preference, no need to shame attack anyone.
Hmmm I thought there was no such thing as a dumb question, but I learn something new daily.
Well "one nighters" are NOT classy, sophisticated nor stylish! and regarding morals which are the standards someone holds themsleves accountable, some people have higher standards & values, thank goodness, therefore people LACKING morals would be OK with the flings.
Now do you understand?
It's Two different Ballgames one is the Major League (Classy people with high morals not doing one night stands) and the other is a pick up game of stickball (low or no moral hornballs getting a thrill for a night with not much care as to how it affects them, the people around them, nor society)
I don't play stickball so the game doesn't affect me personally & there are many like me, & many not.
I went to a college where there were three men for every woman. For sure women had better odds there. The girls even used to say “the odds are good, but the goods are odd”.
In the real world, where women ever so slightly outnumber men the odds are about even. The asymmetry some notice likely arises because the type of relationship desired isn’t the same. If more guys want casual sex than women, the pool of men looking for that kind of relationship will be larger than the pool of men, and the odds will shift in favor of women. Since the numbers are balanced, women will have a harder time in some other way.
The moral, of course, is if you want to improve your odds, try to find something that is rarely found in your sex and commonly desired by the other. That, of course, assumes that you don’t have any actual preferences of your own that can’t be changed.
As far as appearance goes, I see a lot more average or below looking men with attractive women than the reverse.
Meh. I'm guessing you're a man, which is why you perceive it this way. As a woman, I frequently notice very attractive with less attractive women. It may or may not be as common as the reverse, idk, but it's much more common than people seem to think.
Hmmm I thought there was no such thing as a dumb question, but I learn something new daily.
Well "one nighters" are NOT classy, sophisticated nor stylish! and regarding morals which are the standards someone holds themsleves accountable, some people have higher standards & values, thank goodness, therefore people LACKING morals would be OK with the flings.
Now do you understand?
NO
I asked you why you thought that people who had one-night stands of flings were classless or lacking morals, and you replied by saying it's because "one nighters are NOT classy". That doesn't help me understand.
If I ask why leaves are green and you say "because leaves are green" that in no way help me to understand why they are green.
Understand?
I'll ask again,
WHY do you think that one-night stands and flings are immoral and classless?
No use in trying to argue with the morality police.
There may be no such thing as a dumb question, but there sure are dumb posts.
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