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One more thing, let's say we end this soon. We registered for 3 classes together in the Spring, should I drop those classes and register in different ones as to avoid her, or just attend them regardless? Also, I bought 2 tickets for a concert next month where her fav singer will be performing. Shall I cancel or let her have them to do as she pleases?
It's not REALLY that she's afraid of getting hurt. She is just starting out, and you're ready to settle down. It's incompatible. It's not fair to expect commitment from her. Sorry.
Exactly. 33 and 21. She's still wet behind the ears. Go find someone on your level.
So she just texted back that she just got home and that she's been with her dad all day at the mall......and that she won't have the car until Wednesday (technically it's the family extra car that they let her use for school) and she said that she hopes I understand and that she really misses me. LOL I mean is it utter bs or what? Or am I wrong for second guessing her? Shall I just act casual and say ok no problem.
I'm tempted to just completely ignoring her for a few days.....in my opinion, it's obvious that she was most likely hanging out with the friend or some other guy, I mean 5 hrs at the mall? And not even a chance to send me a quick txt to say she's busy. Would it be wise move to cut the contact for a couple of days?
"Hanging out at the mall with her dad" means she was with another guy. She's throwing an "I miss you" your way because she feels a little guilty about deceiving you, not so guilty that she'll be honest or stop it, of course.
I've experienced this, surrender. It sucks not trusting a woman, once you don't trust her, it will never work. Life is miserable when you have to keep tabs on someone. Just let her go. Your sanity will thank you.
No need to ghost her, just start setting up dates with other women. It will help get your mind off this one. If she comes around, great. If not, then you have other options.
Not always true 100% of the time. It could also mean they just lose/lost interest.
Yes, but usually they lose interest because they've targeted someone else.
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