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That's sweet, I guess, but irrelevant to whether or not you should expect him to take his profile down already.
So should I talk to him about it? That I want to take back what I said? Or should I just pretend the conversation never happeneed? My profile is invisible cause I hid it. I kinda want to tell him that I need to unhide my profile so we are "on the same page" would that be offensive?
You did talk to him about it..
If you want to activate yours,just do it. You don't need his permission nor do you need to inform him of it.
But don't do it just to get even with him. Do it if you've decided to keep your options open
You did talk to him about it..
If you want to activate yours,just do it. You don't need his permission nor do you need to inform him of it.
But don't do it just to get even with him. Do it if you've decided to keep your options open
You could mention that you feel it was unreasonable to ask him to take down his profile at this stage of dating.
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On again, off again - and mostly due to you being flaky. If I were him I'd definitely give it some time before committing. You've taken a LOT of time getting to this point!
On again, off again - and mostly due to you being flaky. If I were him I'd definitely give it some time before committing. You've taken a LOT of time getting to this point!
He ghosted on me once... that's flaky as well
Btw, what is the "point" you were referring to?
Oh another piece of information, he wanted to have unprotected sex, saying that he never slept with anyone since last time we had sex which was over 1 year ago, and that time I made him do doctor note before sex. So that's another reason I ask him to take down profile because of the unprotected sex.
He's actually getting very aloof after the talk and don't contact me much or make plans to see each other much anymore.
Oh another piece of information, he wanted to have unprotected sex, saying that he never slept with anyone since last time we had sex which was over 1 year ago, and that time I made him do doctor note before sex. So that's another reason I ask him to take down profile because of the unprotected sex.
He's actually getting very aloof after the talk and don't contact me much or make plans to see each other much anymore.
And there you go. He'll SAY anything to get you in the sack, but when push comes to shove, he wants to keep his options open. You set a boundary, he didn't like it, poof, he's done.
My rule is you don't have to take down your profile or stop dating other people until you are exclusive and had the talk. Are you an official couple? Have you met his family and friends? If he answer is no then you are still single in my book.
I've never even checked or cared about girls I've dated keeping up their profiles. Just because it's up doesn't mean it's being used. Bringing it up and checking it shows mistrust.
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