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Maybe it's time to have a real, meaningful relationship? Didn't you had a "real GF" just few months ago? What's happened to that?
Couldn't maintain it? Too addicted to porn and hookups?
Make a New Year resolution and get help. Seriously...
The apocalypse seems to be in much faster motion now.[/QUOTE
Ya Right!!!!!!
Who the heck is going to want to be in a seriously relationships with a Craigslist hook upnaddict lol.
Leave this one out to roam the pasture as someone wanting a solid relationship is going to have their time wasted.
The pictures and communication is more addicting than the actual acts. But it takes hundreds of hits to get a decent hookup. This is why the one ad limit is so depressing.
Not to mention a lot of the hookups don't actually involve "sex" but I can't really go into explicit detail here.
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But aren't women supposed to love casual sex? As a man why do you need to post a bunch of ads? Why can't you just have one? Do you need a few in order to get some hookups? All things being equal, you should have a good success rate since women love sex just as much as men if not more.
This must be sarcasm.
THIS is why men fail so miserably on Craigslist dating sites.
No, we don't want to see a photo of your junk. No, we don't want to come over to your house (or worse, "host") an encounter that is just sex and then you leave. No, we don't want to be your unpaid side squeeze without some kind of benefit like a fabulous trip to a luxury beach destination.
In short, no. Women don't want casual sex with some guy on a website who can't get a date.
To prove this, read through mens porn vs. women's porn. Men's porn involves reckless encounters with complete strangers. Women's porn (romance novels) involves her getting to know a powerful and gorgeous man who at first is distant, even maddeningly arrogant, but is able to be won over and turned into helpless shameless jelly of passionate desire for her. So there's that.
THIS is why men fail so miserably on Craigslist dating sites.
No, we don't want to see a photo of your junk. No, we don't want to come over to your house (or worse, "host") an encounter that is just sex and then you leave. No, we don't want to be your unpaid side squeeze without some kind of benefit like a fabulous trip to a luxury beach destination.
In short, no. Women don't want casual sex with some guy on a website who can't get a date.
To prove this, read through mens porn vs. women's porn. Men's porn involves reckless encounters with complete strangers. Women's porn (romance novels) involves her getting to know a powerful and gorgeous man who at first is distant, even maddeningly arrogant, but is able to be won over and turned into helpless shameless jelly of passionate desire for her. So there's that.
So you're saying men's porn has some connection to reality, as opposed to women's
THIS is why men fail so miserably on Craigslist dating sites.
No, we don't want to see a photo of your junk. No, we don't want to come over to your house (or worse, "host") an encounter that is just sex and then you leave. No, we don't want to be your unpaid side squeeze without some kind of benefit like a fabulous trip to a luxury beach destination.
In short, no. Women don't want casual sex with some guy on a website who can't get a date.
To prove this, read through mens porn vs. women's porn. Men's porn involves reckless encounters with complete strangers. Women's porn (romance novels) involves her getting to know a powerful and gorgeous man who at first is distant, even maddeningly arrogant, but is able to be won over and turned into helpless shameless jelly of passionate desire for her. So there's that.
Some do.
And I want the simplest and most energy & time efficient way to find them.
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This must be sarcasm.
THIS is why men fail so miserably on Craigslist dating sites.
No, we don't want to see a photo of your junk. No, we don't want to come over to your house (or worse, "host") an encounter that is just sex and then you leave. No, we don't want to be your unpaid side squeeze without some kind of benefit like a fabulous trip to a luxury beach destination.
In short, no. Women don't want casual sex with some guy on a website who can't get a date.
To prove this, read through mens porn vs. women's porn. Men's porn involves reckless encounters with complete strangers. Women's porn (romance novels) involves her getting to know a powerful and gorgeous man who at first is distant, even maddeningly arrogant, but is able to be won over and turned into helpless shameless jelly of passionate desire for her. So there's that.
Um, one of my good friends uses Whiplr (or did last year) to find sex partners. I'm sure its way fewer women than men, but there are plenty of women that use online apps/forums to find hook ups and casual sex.
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Um, one of my good friends uses Whiplr (or did last year) to find sex partners. I'm sure its way fewer women than men, but there are plenty of women that use online apps/forums to find hook ups and casual sex.
There aren't "plenty", and that's why it's so very unsuccessful unless the man has a specific "hook" like a fetish that appeals.
There are very, very few clean healthy women willing to meet a man they don't know for unpaid sex.
There aren't "plenty", and that's why it's so very unsuccessful unless the man has a specific "hook" like a fetish that appeals.
There are very, very few clean healthy women willing to meet a man they don't know for unpaid sex.
And Craigslist has such a sleazy reputation in these heady days of dating/hookup apps that I can't imagine too many women are swimming in the pool that OP is fishing in.
Actually if the OP continues with all the hook ups, he can end up an lonely old man.
Or a lonely old man with an incurable sexually-transmitted disease (NOBODY's going to want sex with you when your junk has fallen off....) Or possibly a lonely old DEAD man if his "evening squeeze" has a jealous husband or a pimp who doesn't like her working off the clock. The possibilities are endless.
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