Why do girls join dating apps just to chat and never meet up? (women, love)
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I love online dating and have had a lot of great experiences on it, but I dont get why people join these apps just to chat and never actually meet up. It's very dishonest and wastes people's time
Because of that I now have a "two strike" rule. If someone doesn't wanna meet up two times, I just stop messaging them
If the app has an option for "find someone who just wants to do friendly talk" or something like that, then that's possible that's all they wanted, really.
But yes, a few messages a day or even across several days, doesn't seem like a lot of loss time, especially considering you are chatting with other people at the same time. Ie, you have found/clicked on several people, chatting them all up, hoping to find someone special by increasing your odds with many people at the same time.
so once you find out they aren't serious, let them conversation die and move on.
I'm a man and we do the same thing. The truth is that most people who use these apps are not serious about actually meeting someone. Or they have ADHD and found someone new to chat with.
The first date when you meet someone is still very much nerve racking for people who have a pessimistic view and think something will go wrong, so it's easier for them to avoid it altogether.
Basically it's an ego boost narcissist thing. They love to get hits from guys and they also love stringing along guys like a game. Certainly not all women are like this, but a certain subset of ladies have no intention of meeting anyone from an online date site.
I've come across a few of these myself but I can figure them out quickly and ignore them.
I never got the concept. I don't enjoy messing with people's minds and hearts. It's cruel.
" Generally speaking, an average straight man will have to send 25 messages to women his own age procure one response, while the average straight woman will have to send 5 messages."
" Generally speaking, an average straight man will have to send 25 messages to women his own age procure one response, while the average straight woman will have to send 5 messages."
Interesting fast facts. There is quite a disparity.
Yup 80/20
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