does he want anything serious??? (accept, broke up, school, age)
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Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Originally Posted by jade408
Oh, I wonder if her guy is my coworker. He just went on a trip with his mom. His mom is getting up in age and has health problems, so he is worried it may be one of his last trips. So he is traveling with his mom for the week.....
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Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth
Not unless he's married to his mother. Unless "mother" is code for something else. OP, do you know for sure it's his mother he's with? How many 30-something guys go on vacation with their mother? Is he from another culture? Oh, I missed that part; I see, now. Well, so I wouldn't worry. I don't know why you're so hung up on this guy, anyway. He probably only dated you for the kissing and ... etc. But, whatever.
Are men allowed to look in on or travel with their parents without suspicion of it being someone else? I’m going to do that next week in Louisville with my mother. I’m not really gonna answer texts from anyone because it is rare vacation for me and I want to spend it with my mother since she has health issues also. Can women just take us at face value when we say we are gonna look in on our parents?
Okay. Forget about him not contacting you over the past couple days - you have a much bigger issue here.
OP - read what you have written.
You told him you didn't want to kiss on the second date, yet you gave in and kissed.
You've told him you want to take it slow on the sex part, yet he continues to push.
You said you want to get to know him before having sex (which is perfectly reasonable). However, you have promised him sex upon his return but then state that you do not know him, you even question if he's single.
And..let's not forget the final tidbit that his friends are racist. Do you really think this man is going to have a long-term, serious relationship with a person his "surroundings" are going to have a problem with? That he's going to cut these people out of his life for you?
If this man was truly interested in a serious relationship, he would respect your request for time - he would respect your boundaries - he would respect you. Instead, he pushes, pushes, pushes. OP - if you're ready to have sex, that's one thing but do not allow this man to push you into something you're not ready to do.
I hope I'm wrong, but this man is just trying to get laid. Once he does, I expect him to go silent on you.
Why do you keep giving in? Have more respect for yourself, OP.
its just silly that he would only wanna get laid. as for the racist part, its the same as the north and south americans kinda. We do speak approx the same language. if the sex is good also why the heck would he be silent
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