does he want anything serious??? (regret, best, years, dating)

[Chrisaki]

Originally Posted by dnrodriguez

Like baked goods?

nahhhh maybe i will indeed ride it out

[Chrisaki]

if he is a good boy of course

[BirdieBelle]

OK this just got super weird. Bleh ... bye!

[Chrisaki]

hahhaha

[jjrose]

Originally Posted by Chrisaki

i like him. i didnt promise sex, we said to stay over at my house. I do genuinely like him and turned on by him but at the same time i would like to know him as a person

Originally Posted by Chrisaki

ye i think the whole thing is just passive aggressive cause i aint giving him sex now. I already said to him he can stay over when he comes back. i dont understand why he skipped my hug and kiss request one day before he left

Originally Posted by Chrisaki

i already know what i want i made it known too. i want a relationship. with the guy we said to take it slow also on the sexual part. i dunno what he wants to do with me. i even said to stay over to mine when he is back. really confused as hell. we did have a daily communication pattern no matter what.

Originally Posted by Chrisaki

well thats fine i mean i DID say to him practically to have sex when he is back.

so what the hell is going on??????

Originally Posted by Chrisaki

ye right but why his behaviour before the holiday and despite i had promised sex already

Originally Posted by Chrisaki

promised not really i told him that he can stay over same bed u know...

Originally Posted by Chrisaki

no its not my invitation we said that already quite a few times, i didnt invite him. i will kiss and hug for sure. If he is a good boy maybe...i will give him some presents

Originally Posted by Chrisaki

i dont play games. i just am very confused

So you both did and didn't promise sex, and both invited and didn't invite him to stay the night?

Seems like games and lies to me.

[Chrisaki]

imean that if we want to have sex we will and we are turned on and there is the right mood

[Fifty Seven]

Originally Posted by Chrisaki

ok so i texted him yesterday just out of curiosity and he asked me if i miss him and he told me he wished i was there with him. he told me he is visiting family and stuff and we ended up having sex talk again. He said to call me to talk on the phone because he wants to hear my voice.

Yes I am Greek and i live in London. I also am a Nothern Greek and not swarthy, I am dark blonde/gingerish natural.

Thanks for clearing that up. Now I know why he wants to have sex with you so badly!

One piece of advice though. The more you overthink this thing, the less likely it is to have a happy ending. Just let things happen, and try to detach yourself from it a little bit while you two are apart.

[Chrisaki]

sure, i just dont know his exact intentions, also i need to clear up his reservations on me being Greek. As Cypriots generally think of Greek girls as easy, bossy, open etc. So I have to clear up if that is a major problem, as we as Greeks dont have a problem with them

[jade408]

Originally Posted by Chrisaki

sure, i just dont know his exact intentions, also i need to clear up his reservations on me being Greek. As Cypriots generally think of Greek girls as easy, bossy, open etc. So I have to clear up if that is a major problem, as we as Greeks dont have a problem with them

Has he mentioned reservations? Or are you just deciding that is the case?

[Chrisaki]

well read my above posts, he is digging me quite a bit