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If she intending to abort, it would be very nice of you to ask about any financial concerns and offer to share them or if she need any emotional support for the procedure, to offer it
If neither are needed, AFTER you've discussed it with her, go on your merry way....but, do be a nice person and ask/volunteer
Why are you all talking about him becoming a father when in his post he said that ..... " She said how she's been freaked out that she thought she would have to go through the abortion alone and unfollowing me would make it easier if she didn't see me since she thought it was over. "
That's why I said "Even if she decides to have an abortion, you should be supportive and go with her to have it done so she's not going through it alone. You can do that without being in a relationship with her, if you have even an ounce of maturity."
We don't know for sure what she's going to do in that regard. Obviously, she's at least considering an abortion, but I'm guessing you've never been a pregnant woman in this sort of situation before. She's entitled to, and she may very well change her mind. But whatever she decides, the OP is very clearly trying to come up with bogus justifications for not taking any responsibility or involvement which is incredibly immature and selfish. If she has an abortion, it's still his responsibility, as the man who got her pregnant, to be there for her during the abortion.
So everyone is telling me that even though you know someone is lying about being pregnant you would still communicate with them?
She went out the night before in heels and a skirt. Who goes out if they're supposedly scared and freaked out because they're pregnant?
How do you know she is lying? Mod cut.
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Reason: Off-topic.
Everyone, please stay on topic. This thread has been cleaned up and numerous off-topic and inappropriate posts have been deleted. If the thread veers off-topic again it will be closed.
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You were forewarned. I've just deleted about 20 more off-topic posts. Thread closed.
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