Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 12-01-2018, 09:36 AM
 
1,532 posts, read 1,071,458 times
Reputation: 5207

Advertisements

The only thing wrong with you is that you appear to be an invertebrate.

Grow a backbone and cut ties with the guy; you’ll be fine.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 12-01-2018, 09:39 AM
 
1,569 posts, read 1,018,253 times
Reputation: 3667
You need to go to counseling for yourself and block this man for good! All the amount of lies he has told you and you STILL gave him chances??That is sick and you need help to get yourself straight. He will pay for all the lies eventually BUT you should NOT be around this person PERIOD.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-01-2018, 09:43 AM
 
Location: DFW
12,227 posts, read 21,604,270 times
Reputation: 33269
This is not love. You're addicted to something about him.. but it's not love. You've also let him know that he can walk all over you and treat you like dirt.

HE WILL NEVER LOVE YOU AND HE WILL NEVER TREAT YOU ANY BETTER THAN THIS.

It's your life, it's up to you how you choose to live it, but maybe read the above over and over as a mantra till it sinks in.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-01-2018, 02:52 PM
 
1,058 posts, read 682,603 times
Reputation: 1844
He sounds like a con man for sure. Stay very far away.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-03-2018, 06:15 PM
 
12,585 posts, read 17,030,934 times
Reputation: 15263
I’m sorry, I can’t read that much.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-03-2018, 06:52 PM
 
9,417 posts, read 7,066,175 times
Reputation: 14820
That note on the train was hot. He peaked at your introduction... sadly
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-04-2018, 09:23 AM
 
Location: Rural NW Nevada
431 posts, read 355,869 times
Reputation: 1418
I couldn't get through this whole drama story but what's with all ths "hacking"?


Your ex, his ex hacking into bank and phone records? I'd be more concerned about that than anything else.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-04-2018, 10:18 AM
 
321 posts, read 235,820 times
Reputation: 1548
OP your story is very sad. You wasted a lot of time on a handsome liar, time that you will never get back. If you die tomorrow, is this all you want to know of love? Do you not feel you are worth more, that what you give to another is worthy of receiving the same?
He does not love you. He loves being desired. You love the chase. That is what is wrong with you.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-04-2018, 10:22 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
49,926 posts, read 60,317,825 times
Reputation: 98359
Quote:
Originally Posted by Hackopotamus View Post
I couldn't get through this whole drama story but what's with all ths "hacking"?
That's when you know someone is lying.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-04-2018, 10:45 AM
 
Location: St Augustine
314 posts, read 442,590 times
Reputation: 550
OP, he will never change. He knows you will take him back every time.


You only live once, why tie yourself down with a known low life cheater? you have to cut him off completely. I would say stay away from any commitment and just have a life.

Once I got my divorce after 16 yrs of marriage, I did not want to be tied down in a relationship. I wanted to do see whoever I wanted, whenever I wanted and text/call anyone without going behind a SO back. I did this until I finally met "the one" and it was wonderful while it lasted and the whole time I was with her up until her passing, I never talked/text other women.

He has 4 kids you know of...and he likes to sleep around, my guess is he doesn't wrap things up..maybe more kids out there, how much $$$ will he have after all this child support?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships

All times are GMT -6. The time now is 04:54 AM.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top