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You need to go to counseling for yourself and block this man for good! All the amount of lies he has told you and you STILL gave him chances??That is sick and you need help to get yourself straight. He will pay for all the lies eventually BUT you should NOT be around this person PERIOD.
This is not love. You're addicted to something about him.. but it's not love. You've also let him know that he can walk all over you and treat you like dirt.
HE WILL NEVER LOVE YOU AND HE WILL NEVER TREAT YOU ANY BETTER THAN THIS.
It's your life, it's up to you how you choose to live it, but maybe read the above over and over as a mantra till it sinks in.
OP your story is very sad. You wasted a lot of time on a handsome liar, time that you will never get back. If you die tomorrow, is this all you want to know of love? Do you not feel you are worth more, that what you give to another is worthy of receiving the same?
He does not love you. He loves being desired. You love the chase. That is what is wrong with you.
OP, he will never change. He knows you will take him back every time.
You only live once, why tie yourself down with a known low life cheater? you have to cut him off completely. I would say stay away from any commitment and just have a life.
Once I got my divorce after 16 yrs of marriage, I did not want to be tied down in a relationship. I wanted to do see whoever I wanted, whenever I wanted and text/call anyone without going behind a SO back. I did this until I finally met "the one" and it was wonderful while it lasted and the whole time I was with her up until her passing, I never talked/text other women.
He has 4 kids you know of...and he likes to sleep around, my guess is he doesn't wrap things up..maybe more kids out there, how much $$$ will he have after all this child support?
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