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Not just 1 but a handful of guys I communicate with, I may say rude things to them, and yet they still want to hook up or hang out.
For instance, I accused one of them of stealing my keys, calling him names/ calling cops on him etc and he still comes over to have fun plus dates.
One guy is always late, a little flakey, I can be really rude to him about it, when we meet, he just laughs it off and acts all OK
Another I have seen for a couple years, he hangs out/ hook up, every once in awhile I'll tell him off, and then he comes over again, says "Oh you were so lippy" and then acts OK about it.
They are quality guys too (decent good looking, nice personalities) but it seems that many just like the attention, to be called names, etc.
I admit sometimes it even adds an element of sexual excitement when doing this. It's almost like calling them names made us closer/ more comfortable with each other.
I think if you are TOO nice, people just get bored of it all..
It’s you!
The most attractive quality is a person just being themselves.
‘You Bonehead.’ Is common among guys. We put each other down as a form of bonding.
You love every bit of it or you wouldn't keep seeing them - obviously that's what they want and you're giving it to them, regardless of what you're saying with words. Hmmm...what speaks louder than words? ...actions.
Obviously I don’t know you but the first thing that popped into my mind reading your post was that they just don’t take you very seriously, for whatever reason.
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